What could i be doing wrong somebody?

[Neutral]

Hello im a 22 year old male and i have not had a girl in a vey long time, I go to the Mall and movies and never seeem to get any luck with the pretty females im a good looking person im a weight lifter in good shape.. What am i doing all the rest of my buddies have women and im the only one still left in the dust.. I do like older women but they seem hard to get.. Im a very out going person and love to have fun but i think i should give up

I thought the best way to go up to a women is to introduce your self and shake their hands or just start telling them where your from i guess this nice talk stuff does not work anymore...

[sera300]

Perhaps you go for the wrong women? It's not doing anything "wrong" but maybe you are not as confident as your friends? There has to be plenty of women at the gym; that's my hunting ground for men!

[eminatic]

i would suggest not going to generic places like the mall
go to places that interest YOU. because the people there will have similar interests (why else would they be there?) and you may have better luck finding someone more compatible.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Go where you want to go and see who's there. Enjoy yourself. Nothing is more attrctive than enthusiasm! If you are having a good time, and this can clearly be seen, your chances of finding a like-minded woman will increase.

[alban lusitanae]

All of the above plus this: don't show that you're looking for someone. And don't overworkout. I hear women dislike the wrestler look

[margieblush]

I agree with all of the advice, the thing is that most women are wary of a "friendly" guy. it is at the back of our heads that the guy can be "too friendly", thus we put him at a distance and the more insistant the guy becomes, the less attractive he becomes, because then he is up to something; he then reeks of desperation and thus something must be "wrong" with him.

if you go back to these same women and act more casual and less eager, but still attentive like a gentlemen, they will change their tune.

yes a woman likes a nice and friendly guy, what nut wouldn't, but we don't want someone who is throwing himself at us...because if i just met him and his throwing himself at me, then i would hate to think how suffocated i will feel if we pursue a relationship.

good luck!