Advice Anyone???

[lcd37]

ok heyy um so im a sophmore in high school and i really like this guy, cody. We dated for like 3 weeks back in like feb. and were still friends and all but like i still really like him. And a couple of days ago he randomly imed be for like the first time in a LONG time and we got talking and some how by the end of the night we sent each other naked pics and sent videos of, um yeeah. and i was gonna go over to his friends house on thurs and he was like so what do you wanna do over at his house and i was like idk what do you wana do and he said have sex and he really wasnt kidding but we ended up not going over to his friends house and now idk if he likes me or not and i really cant understand him. like one day he is flirting with me and the next we like dont even say hi in the hallways. and its just realy weird cause we have 3 classes back to back with each other....idk if ne one can help me but just asking for some advice here

[sera300]

It sounds as if he is just playing with you. Skip it for now, blow him off. He did not get what he wanted from you so now he is not talking to you. You dated him in Feb. for a few weeks? Why did you not continue to?

Don't send men naked pics via web-cam! In fact, do not send them at all! You never know what they are doing. One poster not long ago on here did this with a girl from school, she kept the tape of the web-cam and showed it around to everyone at school. He was so embarrassed and looking for advice.

[lcd37]

yeeah well i actually like sorda wanted to do it with him...like it was him that bailed on me. and yeah he was the one that broke up with me...i still dont really know why, he told my friend he just didnt like me like that

but its like really bad, like i basically think about him everyday. i mean i want to get over him BADLY but then when he like flirts with me im like wait i like him. like i dont know how to stop liking him anymore

[cat0004]

Don't "do it" with him. Trust me on this one! He flirts with you because he wants sex with you. If he really liked you, you'd know it. He just wants your body and thats it. Especially after seeing naked pix of you. And stop using the word "like" a million times.

[sera300]

Okay, so he was not interested. You are not going to lure him w/the offer of sex. When he flirts with, you just joke w/him and make comments to blow him off say something like " Yeah, you wish baby", kidding, smiling, and walk away! Get your self-esteem back!

Let it go with him, hang w/friends, and look for a nice guy! Date people, go out, have some fun. That's how you get over men. Develop the skill now and you will do well in upcoming years. They can be real jerks.

[littlechicky]

HE IS PLAYING YOU! And as sera said, I bet some of his friends have already seen your pictures. This happened to my friend in high school. Ditch him all together, he is immature and an *******.

[lcd37]

yeah but i would totally never say that kind of stuff.
is it bad if we like only just had a "friends with benefits" status like do those kind of things work out

[littlechicky]

Friends with benefits never works out. The boy won't respect you because he can get what he wants whenever he wants it. It lowers your standards--raise the bar HIGH girl! Every woman is a princess and deserves to be treated with respect, love, and appreciation. Not friends with benefits. Plus you will be jealous of any girl that talks to him.

[sera300]

If you want to be FWB that is a relationship where the person IS your friend. I don't see him being that to you, rather I see him as being disrespectful to you. Any relationship I have had as FWB was based upon a good solid friendship where there was a mutual physical attraction. When the physical part is removed there has to be a solid foundation. This guy wants sex, that's it. He's not interested in anything but and you are keeping an emotional attachment to him and settling for a substandard relationship.

[lcd37]

ahh ok thankss for the help guys