Trust

[darrensusername]

My ex no longer has trust in me.. and sometimes i dont trust her..is this enough to end a relationship? i want to work things out? is it possible to fix this or find some sort of resolution? I want to trust her and i want her to trust me..what can i do?

[emilie]

If you are only dating? Move on.

Married with kids? get professional help.

Once trust is gone, it takes a LOT of work to stick the relationship back together (if at all).

[demonbuttercup]

Agreed, plus why is the trust gone?
Did you do something or she do something to cause suspicion?

[Raidenator]

Gonna have to ask why the trust is gone too.

If the relationship is that bad both of you just need to talk about what you really want. It may not be worth the effort, trust is an essential thing to being in a relationship.

[HardNgood]

come to think of it...i don't trust you either!

[mishsa]

trust can be rebuilt. Things were rough with me and my boyf, and he didnt trust me, but once i showed him i wasnt going to hurt him etc...everything is perfect. IT CAN BE REBUILT!!!!!!!
DONT MOVE ON YET

[darrensusername]

i noticed she wouldnt tell me when she wud skip classes to go to a guys house.. now i suspected she was cheating on me.. there i guess i lost trust in her.. i sorta went through her phone and got caught and she lost trust in me.. i want to fix this because i want this relationship to work

[a-bit-shy]

From a person who has been cheated on (which I think is you), I was never able to trust him again. I made an honest effort, but I never got over it. Eventually I moved on and I'm happy. Much happier than I was always second guessing his every move and action.

[darrensusername]

no1 cheated on anybody though

[EvilEvilKitten]

You both screwed up. Cut your losses and move on.