Need some advice about about a girl.

[Jawiin]

I posted on here about a month ago about whether I should ask a girl out who had just got out of a relationship. I asked her out. And we have been dating for about a month.

The month went great. We went on several dates, kept it very casual, joked and laughed.

Then tonight she says she wants to talk. She tells me that she's being unfair to me, and she needs to sort out her situation. And that she's not ready for a serious relationship. I told her that I enjoyed her company, and would be willing to wait for her to decide what she wanted. She said she would call me in a couple of days and tell me what she figured out.

My question is, what do you think will happen? I know I didn't give every detail, but was wondering what some of the people on this board thought.

Thanks.

[Westles]

I think she will ring, but i dont think it will be what you want to hear mate.

[dancingdoc2]

Yup, rebound relationships are tentative at best. Anybody needs some time after a relationship ends to actually become "single" again.

[sera300]

Figure when she calls you, you will be single. She jumped into a relationship after just ending one, there is no "waiting for her" to be ready. She needs time & to date lots of men. You need to date many women. Rule: Don't exclusively date a woman who just got out of a relationship.

[Jawiin]

Yeah, I kind of figured it was over, but wanted to see if my suspicions were right.

It sucks cause I really like her.

I just wish she could have said that night, "Hey we're done."

[EvilEvilKitten]

Never date exclusively unless you're immediately taking her to the altar, my friend.

[HardNgood]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Never date exclusively unless you're immediately taking her to the altar, my friend.

Uhhhhhhhhhhh which alter you talkin' about EEK?? the matrionial alter or the sacrificial alter??

[EvilEvilKitten]

Matrimonial, Hard - although some think there's very little difference between the two - but I'm a romantic.

[HardNgood]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Matrimonial, Hard - although some think there's very little difference between the two - but I'm a romantic.

[Jawiin]

Still haven't gotten a call from her

Its definitely over.