Confusing situation

[EvilEvilKitten]

Are you a licensed sex therapist? If not, then I suggest leaving this to the professionals. The gynecologist has already said it is not physical. Support her if you feel you must but only while she is seeing someone about it and working toward a solution with all of her might.

Sex is an important part of life. 20 years down the road, the lack of sex becomes soul-destroying. And if she thinks sex hurts, just wait until she contemplates having children.

Curb your Galahad, Knight in shining armor on a white horse riding to her rescue, Complex enough to remember that you also have your needs and that they are just as legtimate as hers.

[RonnieB223]

So if I understand what you're saying is, stay by her side as long as she is trying to "fix" the problem. But if she isn't, then move on? I think you are right, I see myself making this move soon, but I hope not.

So my question kitten is, what do you think I should do next? How should I discuss this possibility or maybe discuss a solution? What steps do you recommend that she makes? We are both relatively new to this and I don't want to leave her stranded.

I appreciate the thoughts, discussion and suggestions, thanks.

--Ron

[EvilEvilKitten]

She should ask for referrals to sex therapists from her gynecologist. Make an appt with each and select the one she feels most comfortable with. Then she should do whatever the therapist recommends. You standby to help as the therapist directs.

[RonnieB223]

Ahh okay, I will definitely discuss about therapists with her. Thank you, you have been a great help.