05-22-2007, 04:49 PM
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it was nearly one year!
Hi guys,
So it was almost one year (about 2weeks) and she told me she wanted to break up. I love her a lot and have done a lot for her too, i have also sacrificed a lot for her. Im sure she still loves me but when i ask she says not like before. I tried writing her many letters to try to win her back but no luck. She says im too attached and nosey. I did some pretty stupid things such as looking through her phone and found some text messages that totally made me accuse her of liking someone else. She said i broke her trust and i know i screwed up big time. She says she doesnt want a boyfriend right now and when she does i'll probably be her first choice. Its just i cant wait. I feel so crappy right now, im crying like every time i speak with her, and its like ive lost my happiness. Im also afraid because theres another guy that likes her whos one of her friends and i live 2 hours away bus ride ( i dont have my license yet) and im afraid he goes to see her and stuff. Thats the same guy i accused her of liking/having an affair but she swore to god and stuff that she doesnt like him and i told her i believe you but sometimes i get suspicious. Basically my question is, what can i do to get her back? i really love her and she means so much to me...i dont know what to do without her... 
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05-22-2007, 05:36 PM
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sounds like you are waaaaaaaaaaay to insecure and you need to help yourself first before engaging in a relationship...she's not ready and you are a bit of a mess...get some counselling to deal with this..good luck
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05-22-2007, 05:41 PM
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you are to attached to a girl you cant get. move on. there are lots of fish in the sea. if you keep your hopes up for this girl, which may never date you again, you wll miss out on many oppertunities.
Move ON
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05-22-2007, 06:00 PM
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what if i dont want to move on...i love her too much to move on.. i cant..
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05-22-2007, 06:05 PM
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You have no choice. She is not wanting a relationship with you right now. Trust me you will adapt, many here have been through worse. Pick yourself up (no one else is going to do it for you) and show her what a man you really are.
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05-23-2007, 01:40 AM
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It's called a break up because it's broken.
Pull yourself together, have a long hard look in the mirror and start again. She says she don't want to date.... this means she doesn't want to date you. She said you'd be the first she'd date as a way of pacifying the situation.
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05-23-2007, 05:22 AM
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> i love her too much to move on.. i cant. That you "love her too much" is a danger signal. That you can't means you do not want to accept the inevitable. The whole purpose of dating is to sample what humanity has to offer and to discover the many traits and characteristics of other people so that you will be better able to recognize Ms. Right when she does come along, and from all the people that you have encountered, be better able to make a choice. Dating is not about stopping with the first warm body who expresses or expressed an interest in you. Answer: Move on and date lots of others and do not enter into an exclusive relationship for a few years if you are still a teen. You will eliminate all the drama that accompanies juvenile entanglements if you do.
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05-23-2007, 05:51 AM
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Theres nothing you can do to change her mind right now. If you stick around and constantly try to get her back, you will become annoying and push her away even farther. take everyone's advice and just let her go. There is someone better for you, and if not, she may come back later if its meant to be. noone knows the future. but just let it be and let life ride. whatever happens is whatever happens
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