The "first move"

[harmonsgrl]

Okay, i have liked my boyfriend since 3rd grade. i was married and i still constantly thought about him. now we are dating. We are no doubt madly in love with one another. However, im nervous to make the first sexual move. we talk about sex alot and weve talked about wanting our first time to be special and he even said that we would make love every day after we move in together. i am almost 100% sure he's ready. but his brother told me he feels the same way i do. so how do we break this wall that weve both put up to avoid sexual rejection? PLEASE help me....

[Brandye]

On your next date, take both his hands in yours and press them, palm side toward you, against your breasts.

[Lovesdesire]

gotta say that is the best advice ive ever heard

[Ephemera]

She's right. Men love breasts.

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by Brandye

On your next date, take both his hands in yours and press them, palm side toward you, against your breasts.

There she goes, again, telling it like it is and in 25 words or less. I do not know how you pack so much information and knowledge into so few words.

[EvilEvilKitten]

I'm assuming you kiss and hug - so next time wrap your arms around him, firmly press youself against him and kiss him with a demanding ardor upon his lips.

If you're wanting a more subtle method of sending the message, kiss him very very lightly, run the tip of your tongue lightly over his lips and snuggle into his arms. And if you can purr a bit while snuggling - so much the better.