What to do

[GreatamericanChallenge]

Okay I have been friends with this girl for like a year now and during that time she has had a few b/f and they never seem to last. Until like December I never liked her that much, she was sort of just a friend that I hung out with on the weekends. Well now she has a boyfriend and I told her I liked her and she didnt talk to me for like 2 weeks and then one day she came into my work and we talked. Now we hang out a lot like we used to but there is a lot more physical interaction between us and last night we went to the club together. We danced/she just shaking her ass on my for like 4 hours straight. It got really hot and heavy but I'm not sure if she likes me like that but this is a new step for her and me because she is not normally like this and wont even let her boy friend see her in a swim suit( even tho i have and she is smokin hot). SO really what im asking is do you think that she is ready to move on and finally go out with me or is this just some "thing"?

[sera300]

Maybe just give it few days to hang out and see where it goes. Don't bring it up, let her come around to you since you already put your cards on the table.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Time for her to step up. I agree with sera - it is time for you to sit back and see what she does. Either she gets with you or she doesn't. Either way, you have your answer.

[TZFBird]

I can only let you know what has worked for me in the past. First of all... don't stay quiet. You have got the hardest part over and told her how you fell. It's all downhill from there. The only thing she can say is no or that she does not feel the same. Judging by the fact that she didn't talk to you for a while, then went out of her way to talk to you in person would make me think that she needed that time to sort things out and decide whether she likes you also or not.
Does she still currently have a boyfriend now that she is talking to you again?

One other thing to keep in the back of your mind. Since she has had quite a few boyfriends in a short amount of time. Will she stick around a while, or will things only last a short time.
What I'm trying to say is, are you looking to stay with this girl for a while, or are you just trying to see what will happen between the two of you? Most of the girls I had as friends that turned into relationships ended up ruining the friendship as well.
Weigh the options. Don't go ruining the chances to have a good friend just because you are trying to get in her pants.

Good luck

[EvilEvilKitten]

It all depends upon how you handle yourself whether you ruin the friendship or not. I remain friends with all of my lovers.