Get some stuff of my chest

[Lyon]

Hay guys I need some advice, me and my g'f have been togthere for 5 months now, she always comes in the garage I work and I've had a ting for her for years shes 23 and im 21, we got togthere just be for xmas. Things are goin really well she's an AMAZING!!!!!! girl all we do is just laugh all the time..........

But...............

our sex life is just non existent. I've tryd everyting to get her going but she always gota find a excuse, when Im romantic she claims I'm being clingy and its a turn off, when I try being spontantious (dnt knw if thats how u spell it lol) she acuses me off bein only intrested in one thing and just wanting to use, she even called me a 'SICK PERV' cause I said I wanted to 'get my hands on her'. Now I've never rushed her or forced to do anyting she dont wanna do but what really started playing on my mind was we were talking bout our ex's, and she made it clear to me that she had a healthy sex life with him. So I dnt understand why she so reluctant to get near me. To be honest I'm considering breaking up with her. Thanx 4 reading ppl I just wanted to get some stuff of my chest, if anybody has had any similar situations or ideas let me knw. Cheers.

[sera300]

Have you ever sat down and spoke with her about what's happening? Have you asked her point blank what the issue is? If she is not interested in you sexually then you are not a good match. Perhaps, she is not telling you something?

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yes, she is telling him something - she's telling him she does NOT want to have sex with him - EVER.
He's just a "friend" to her.

Move on, fellow!

[xgx]

Kitten I love how blunt you are haha.

[Uncle Ben]

Wait a minute, you are actually a couple, and she won't have sex with you? Dump the spineless lout; the least she could do is either let you know she is not ready for sex yet, instead of lying to you and getting your hopes up, or simply end things if she is not attracted to you.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Yes, she is telling him something - she's telling him she does NOT want to have sex with him - EVER.
He's just a "friend" to her.

Move on, fellow!

Touch'e....

[moose_hd]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Yes, she is telling him something - she's telling him she does NOT want to have sex with him - EVER.
He's just a "friend" to her.

Move on, fellow!

Exactly. Dump her butt. You are better than her.

[cjb1981]

My ex wouldn't give me a blow job for anything, even thought I went down on her every time we got together. She told me that it was something that she didn't do, she just didn't like it. She later told me that she started giving blow jobs when she was 16, and she loved it. It made me feel like I wasn't good enough for her to go down on. Even though the guys that she gave bjs before, she didn't even know! Well, we ended up calling it quites for other reasons, and I later realized that it was a domination thing with her. She had to have the upper hand in the relationship. Maybe it's the same here, maybe she feels like she needs that power over you. They can be pretty good at mind games, dump her sorry ass.