05-09-2007, 09:20 AM
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Almost cheating?...
Okay well I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 months now. Since about 6+ months ago I met this other girl who I liked, and I knew she liked me, but nothing ever happened really. So I stopped talking to her, until now. My question is, would it be wrong to "hang out" with her? Even if it was non sexual, I would feel bad because not only does my girlfriend know about us almost going out, but she still likes me. Would it be best to leave her alone?
 
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05-09-2007, 12:58 PM
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If the both of you wanted a friendship and nothing more I would say "go for it".
Problem is that SHE has probably agreed to meet as friends because she hopes more will happen. Then it's not a friendship but an illusion. You wouldn't be able to trust that she would tell you her honest opinion because she would of course say stuff that would in the end bring you closer to her and pull you away from your girlfriend. On top of that your girlfriend would get very uneasy and perhaps mistrusting, and THAT could ruin your relationship. You have to ask yourself: Is beeing friends with this girl worth risking losing my girlfriend? If the answer isn't NO I think you should think twice about your relationship.
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Sincerely, - Orow [I apologize for any spelling errors or such - English is not my 1st language]
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05-09-2007, 05:30 PM
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Best way to not end up cheating is to NOT but yourself in situations where "things happen". This is definitely one of those situations.
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05-09-2007, 09:44 PM
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I would leave well enough alone, where there is an attraction, things are bound to happen
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05-09-2007, 09:57 PM
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Your question and concern is exactly why dating (lots of people, and not just stopping with the first warm body who shows an interest) was invented. You need to consider dating lots of people in non-exclusive relationships for a few years.
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05-13-2007, 07:13 AM
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Dancing Doc, as so often is the case - is exactly right! Expand your social circle. Date lots of people. Hang out whenever you get the chance after having met your obligations. This is the time for you to have fun. Go for it!
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