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Old 05-02-2007, 01:04 PM
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he cheated....

so this guy of 5 months i've been seeing has had another girl on the side...recently i got a email from "the other girl" who someone got my email, prolly from him, and in the email there were pictures of her and the guy i've been seeing having sex...and now she's trash talking me and stuff, i've never met her i didn't know she existed...but now it kinda crushed me that this guy has had her around for a while now, and i was never aware of it...just hurts...second guy who has done somethin like this to me...i feel like i want to give up on dating all together...some friendly advice to make me feel a lil better would help...
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Old 05-02-2007, 02:06 PM
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He (and she) are the pond scum; not you. Feel happy to be done with him. Perhaps get to know your next partner a little better before getting too close.
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Old 05-02-2007, 02:21 PM
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Hy sorry 2 hear that, buy not al of us men ar like that. men like him make it hard for woman to trust yhe good ones. Goodluck and he lost alot u just gaind. Heads up
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Old 05-02-2007, 02:24 PM
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Think of it this way, she is your new best friend. Why? She showed you what he is really all about. Not worth fretting over, don't waste a minute thinking about him obviously he is nothing special, now make certain the next one is!
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Old 05-02-2007, 03:27 PM
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Hey there, a side thought here about this. Have you thought that these two were together prior to you two now being together? and that this women is jealous that they dident stay together and is trying to ruin the relationship that you have? I dont know the whole story, but am giving you a perspective that has happened to me personally once.

She may be just trying to stir things up. Is the pictures she provided have the date and time in which it was taken? Because as I said, it could have been before you.

Just a thought.

And if not. You do NOT deserve that kind of dishonesty and treatment. Confront him, and try to be civil, and come out on top of all of this. Get out, move on. Because apparently he is not worth your time.
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Old 05-06-2007, 02:04 AM
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forget him jeese, if anyone is that low to cheat on you then they arent EVER worth it, cut your loss and get on with your life
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Old 05-07-2007, 02:50 AM
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Here is a few words you can say to him

“get lost!!!”
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Old 05-07-2007, 09:56 AM
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Don't even think of stooping down do this other girl's level. She may think she just got over on you but now she's got to deal with that jerk. What do you think he's probably going to do to her down the line? Just be glad you found out fairly early in the relationship!
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Old 05-07-2007, 12:37 PM
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thanxs everyone! i talked to him and he tried to deny it, but i told him i saw the pictures so he couldn't even try to deny it. so i've moved on now and i'm happy that i saw him for who he really is. thanks everyone!
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Old 05-07-2007, 08:23 PM
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skipgirl, remember there are nice guys out there as well. But take a break and relax a little, and try to do something nice for yourself.

At least you didn't waste more time on him!!
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