How to Choose trouble..

[pimpinaintez]

Hey I'm 17 and would like to see your input on my problems...

About 3 weeks ago this girl that i was attracted to "A" liked me back and we were pretty tight for a week.. then we didn't talk for a bit because she was giving me these bad vibes, and her friend told me that I was too "clingy".. but I still really liked her, but didn't talk to her anymore

The next week after that I meet this very nice, attractive girl "B".. we made out that day and the next, and i was really into her. I find out after our second kiss that she felt bad kissing me because she had a boyfriend...and i really like her too.. She is a virgin which is a big plus for me, opposed to "A" that had a bad reputation in her past

Now just today "A" im's me checkin how I've been doin and wants to see me at this party this weekend
And "B" is thinking hard about dumping her boyfriend for me..

I'd want a girl that i can get to love, and feel very intimate and close with + have a good sex life with. However, i'm pretty sure "A" has been worked in, while "B" has done little (yes she has/HAD! a boyfriend ~10 months and they havn't gone past making out, and she's not lying)

edit: with "B" i can have long talks on the phone with and idk i can look into her really nice blue eyes and it just tells me everything about her, where with "A" it's not the same feeling.. and last time i showed her too much affection she didn't talk to me so i don't know

What do you think!

thanks

[HardNgood]

Go for "A"...sounds like she knows what to do..you'll need all the help you can get!! I say sunnie...it's called EXPERIENCE!...

[EvilEvilKitten]

OMG why are you even debating this? Go with "A" of course! She's already given you your first lesson on how to be a man - "can the hearts and flowers routine, buddy". Stick with her and you will not be coming back here asking for advice but giving it!

[demonbuttercup]

Originally Posted by pimpinaintez

I'd want a girl that i can get to love, and feel very intimate and close with + have a good sex life with. However, i'm pretty sure "A" has been worked in, while "B" has done little (yes she has/HAD! a boyfriend ~10 months and they havn't gone past making out, and she's not lying)

You say you want a good sex life...yet girl B is a virgin and has been w/ her b/f of 10 mnths.
So either scenerio is 1. she dumps her current b/f... is on the rebound..."might" sleep w/ you but will probably feel guilty about it, lol. or
2. you start dating this girl and 10 mnths from now she's still a virgin and you are frustrated.

I mean don't ever be the reason someone dumps someone else..... like I said you'll be the rebound guy. PLus 10 mnths is quite a while...close to a year. And she'd just dump him like that? over a guy she just met?? Doesn't say much for her either LOL. Then if things don't work out w/ you two...she'll come back guilting you saying "I dumped my great boyfried for YOU!".
Girl A has way less drama and baggage attached!!!!

[sera300]

Okay...date them both...easy enough for finding trouble right?

[pimpinaintez]

AHHHHHH

So confusing!! I saw B today and made out and touched** for 5 hours!! and we dropped the L word ... If she does this with me while she has a boyfriend how do i know that she won't do this with someone else when im with her. I don't really know but i really trust her, she is a very good girl and doesn't do anything bad, very good conscience + her boyfriend makes her feel bad and he goes to college when she's still in highschool.

On the other hand A calls me love, and I still like her but i seriously lost respect for her..

I'm just going to tell B me or your boyfriend, because I really do care for her.. I don't really think the whole rebound guy applies because she didn't leave him, then get with me.. but got to know me while she was with him and it moved up from there...

[cyclefreak]

Why have you lost respect for A? Because she is experienced perhaps? That is not a reason to lose respect, its an asset!

[EvilEvilKitten]

pimp, you're an idiot!

THINK about this - you trust B yet she's seeing you on the sly? DUH! Not that 'cheating' bothers me but it seems to be big deal for you people.
Seems B's 'virtue' is one big LIE. Dry humping for 5 hours. PFFFT!

You've lost respect for A? Because she'll actually do something with you?

You have some SERIOUS issues regarding sex, buddy. I would venture to say that if you actually did anything with B, you'd lose respect for her as well.
Before you make any decisions and get with either girl, I suggest you grow up.

[tmps]

well its easy go with B, if A gives you the silent treatment then she isnt worth it, just wait till B is single last thing u want to do is go any further if she is with her man.

[sera300]

Just date them both, then decide. What's so tough about this?