Is She Interested?

[khatzeen]

Ok i know i have started a number of posts recently; i'm new to courting and i'm fairly confused. Ill be more than happy to give advice to others if i get some experience. Anyway onto my question.

I'm going to start from the top because i might be ruling somthing out that i shouldn't. I have this class with this girl. We were waiting for the shuttle to take us back to the main campus so we started talking. Once we came to my stop, i asked her if she wanted to get dinner. She said yes so we went to a potbelly's (its like a subway or quiznos). We had a nice converstation during the meal which continued as i walked her back to her building. I didn't ask her for her number. I got nervous and didn't know how she felt (thanks for all who posted to my thread "forgot to ask her for her number"). This happened last monday.

I called her thursday night (would have sooner but calculus swamped me) at 10pm. I woke her up. She works at night and she was taking a nap before work. She told me to call her tomorrow which i did. We agreed to a dinner on friday (this friday). Today before class she told me she had to cancel because her car is broken and she was going home to have it worked on (it actually is broken, she talked to me before i asked her to dinner).

Wow that got a little lengthy. On a side note, when i was trying to procure a dinner with her (i'm avoiding using 'date' because i'm not exactly sure what the specifics of a 'date' is.), she told me she was very busy. i finally asked her when she had an opening and thats how we picked friday.

So my qustion is this. Is she interested or trying to spare my feelings? I know i mentioned the car needing to be fixed but she told me it has been that way since last quarter. Any input would be helpful. Thanks

[sera300]

Maybe she just had an appointment to get her car repaired & saved enough money to get it done? Just give her a call to see what she is up to; how everything is going etc. Then ask her for another time to go out. Maybe she is busy. If she was not interested, I doubt she would have made any plans w/you. Give her the benefit of the doubt.

If she does not commit this time to an alternative time, let it slide, and assume she is not interested.

If you asked her out to dinner, it's considered a date, it was a casual one.

[khatzeen]

Thanks for the advice. I havent been thinking clearly since this started. actually i can only think about her. Well i'll call her tmorrow and cross my fingers

[sera300]

Remain interested but don't chase her!

[HardNgood]

she may be having a "thing" for the mechanic and likes going to visit her car alot !!!!!!!! ROFLMAO

[khatzeen]

lol thats reasuring HardNGood. Anyway would you mind defining 'chase' Sera? I'm not planning on going nuts and stalking her or anything. I just like talking ot her, especially when she smiles

[sera300]

Don't chase meaning don't over do it! Act interested just don't act desperate. Make her smile, that's a good thing!

There's a good point, maybe I have to find a good mechanic! Kidding, lol.

[Ratach]

sera300, I would pay YOU to work on your cars, especially that Camaro of yours...

[muadda187]

hey i know this really attractive girl and i randomly met her and we've had some very interesting conversations over coeffe and just talking....so after about a month i finally was about to ask her out but before i do she tells me that her bf just broke up with her. And now he wants her back 2 days later. So i waited untill she told me that she wasnt gonna go back with him and i asked today and she was like.....'maybe somtime'.......i am completely clueless
what does she mean and what should i do

[sera300]

That means she is not interested at this time, wait for a bit, and try again. If it's still a vague answer, then skip it.