04-17-2007, 10:33 PM
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lookin for help
ok my boyfriend and i have been seein each other for 3 years. just the other day he tells me i suck in bed. i dont know what i can do to make it better. we have a 2 month old baby so i thought it was all fine. but i was wrong i dont know what i can do to be better. can someone help me out here.
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04-17-2007, 11:33 PM
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see our relationship has been hard he cheated on me 8 times so i got back at him by sleeping with his friend i have never had anyone else tell me that i suck in bed so i thought it was good for my bf too. two x-mases ago he asked me to marry him and we are still planing on gettin married in 2008 we have been faithful with each other sence i got back at him 2 years ago when we have sex and im on top he holds my hips so tight that i cant move i have said something to him about it but he just lesins not hears. then when im on bottem i try keep up with him but hes like a jack rabbit. i guess i just need the 411 on sex
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04-17-2007, 11:39 PM
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That's one hell of a foundation to begin a marriage on. And you allow him to talk to you like this? Maybe he should be telling you what makes him happy in bed?
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04-17-2007, 11:46 PM
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ok
he has told me somethings that he likes durring sex but then sometimes when i do them he says it is annoying
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04-18-2007, 05:39 AM
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Sounds as if this guy has some serious problems. If he is this inconsiderate now, you will spend a lifetime listening to his gripes. Do yourself a favor, re-think what you are doing and why.
Also your user name; why?
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Last edited by sera300; 04-18-2007 at 05:46 AM..
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04-18-2007, 03:17 PM
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Yup, do not be so desperate that you have to hang on to this guy.
From your account of events, both of you sound very immature and this is certainly no way to enter a marriage. A marriage is a partnership in which two autonomous adults choose to join forces for the common good of both. You sure do not have a common good if you keep pecking away and getting even all the time. This is not the way to base a relationship. Whether you are good or not so good in bed is only relevant if you learn what is bothering him about your love life. I recommend going through the Forums and reading each of my Sticky posts in order to learn more about what it takes to have a sound and loving relationship. Each time a new partnership is formed there will be a new Square One from which to begin. Just because something worked in a previous relationship is no guarantee that the same activities will work with the new person. The two of you have to explore and learn together and not hold on to the past except for the knowledge acquired.
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04-18-2007, 08:14 PM
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ok after all the cheating we talked about having a new start the past would be the past and we would try not to hurt eachother and so far we haven t and hes words wernt you suck in bed he said "you need to learn more about sex and how to give it more." i have looked for tips but i cant find anything helpful i just need someone totell me everything to do before during and after. not that i dont know the basics like foreplay i never know what to do to please him and sex well i just need some positions that he cant stop me from doing anything. as for after we lay with each other for about 5 mins then one of us goes to get showered
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04-18-2007, 08:24 PM
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No one can just make out a detailed plan to say you do A,B, then C. Sex isn't supposed to be the same everytime... you have to mix it up.
And what do you mean "positions that he can't stop me from doing anything"?? I read back where you said he holds your hips so tight you can't move?!? And I don't know about most women...but pounding like a jackhammer isn't sensual or appealing. Sounds like he is the one that needs some "sex 411". He likes to be in control of everything yet he wants you to do something different? I mean what would he do if you tied his hands to the bed and climbed on top of him...so that he couldn't touch you... would he enjoy it? or hate it??
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04-18-2007, 08:31 PM
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go question mybie i will try that and just see what he does and the foreplay i am just shy how can i open up more?
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