Afraid

[Introspect]

My girlfriend and I have recently started a break.

And this scares me. I am really afraid to lose her. I really like this girl. She is on my mind constantly.
We had a talk before she wanted to take the break. She said that right now she just feels like she still needs to impress me and i am a source of stress right now.
But it is so hard to talk with her because she doesn't talk. she tells me she has a hard time talking about how she feels because she is afraid to be hurt again. (her last boyfriend was a real bastard)

I haven't done anything to give her a reason to not trust me. I tell her how much I care for her and that I am here for her, all she has to do is talk to me.

But we have only been dating a month and I'm afraid I might have gotten to attached to her. Too much too soon maybe?
She told me that "I don't know if I can handle a relationship this intense."

and i know all of this could have just been avoided if she would just talk to me.


well, i guess my question is: Should I just wait it out, or is there anything i can do to show her that I won't hurt her?

[Westles]

Hmmm in my mind mate, a break is just an excuse to end the relationship easily. With breaks, the idea is to give the other person some space, so the more you try and talk, the more you could potentially push her away.

My two cents.

[sera300]

Walk away. If she changes her mind in the future let her come back to you & you think about it. She's not ready for a relationship, just let her go.