04-15-2007, 11:33 AM
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How do you tell a guy you like them??
I have been talking to a guy that is in the service for awhile now and I know him from when we were kids in school.. well we are both 21 and he comes home from the service in 5months and I really like him a lot.. How do I tell him?? I guess I am scared to tell him or just dont know how to say it. I know that he talks to me more then he does his family. But Im aslo not sure how he feels about me either.. Guys help me please!!
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04-15-2007, 11:36 AM
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Just tell him for now how much you enjoy talking to him...you don't need to come out and "tell him", just let him know you like the conversations and when he comes home you would like to spend some time together, and go out on a date. The rest is implied!
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04-15-2007, 12:53 PM
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I like that answer. One thing you do not want to do whether he is in the war zone or just of in some distant safe place is to put more emotional stuff on his plate to deal with such as "I love you" (now), or that I really really like you and whatever that may mean to him as he extrapolates this information.
So, I agree with Sera, give him some positive reinforcement without going overboard just yet. Wait for him to return, become grounded, again, before laying something really heavy on him. When you are ready, then tell him as you have just told us. After all, he knows you like him, and you know he likes you or this friendship would not be what it is. So, all you are really doing is confirming it using Sera's approach, and then when he comes home, upping the ante' with the direct approach of telling him like it is. You can then tell him anything else that is in your heart like I really want to do more with you--whatever.
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04-15-2007, 03:25 PM
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Don't be scared to tell that you like him. Something wonderful could come from it. 5 Months is a long time and with him being away from home his feelings about you may have changed. And he may realize that he wants to be with you too. Just don't jump the gun to soon and wait for the right moment to tell him your feelings.
Good Luck!
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04-16-2007, 05:24 AM
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tell him, whats the worst that can happen?
if you care for him let him know, you never know what the future can bring. just tell him that you have feelings for him, you have for a while and that there is no pressure, you'll feel so much happier and atleast you'll let him know where he stands. if could feel the same way, you'll never know if you dont ask....hope thats helped a little bit.
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04-16-2007, 10:44 AM
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"Hi, (insert his name here). I like you."
how hard was that?
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