old problems arise

[Lovesdesire]

well me and my gf have been together for 6 months now.
we became sexually intimate after 3 months, was great losing it to her as i felt like she is the perfect person for me but then here is where it gets a tad screwed up , a week later she sleeps over at a guys house with her friends (he's gay) yeh i believed it , well next day after she phones me up and tells me she cheated on me with him (was only a drunken kiss) i say only to reassure myself but it just really really hurt seeing as we had sex for the first time a week before.
she begged for my forgiveness and i forgave her seeing as it would be silly over a drunken kiss but i still had thoughts in the back of my head about it all.
then 3 days ago she asked me as we were walking about "what you do if i cheated on you again" well right there and then i felt like id been kicked in the head and felt rather angry so i told her id dump her on the spot if she'd ever do that to me again.
now its calmed down but im still having nagging thoughts over it as she is going to spain soon and she will be drunk so therfore im rather nervous to what will happen and dislike the idea of her being there drunk with lots of single guys nearby probs.
im just confused really on what to say to her and whether i should end it

thanks for all the help

[sera300]

I think you have to decide if you want to date a woman who is going to play games with you. Cut her loose, she sounds pretty immature .

[HardNgood]

Well you know for a fact that the next time she fools around while under the influence, she WON'T tell you. If she likes to party and use lack of judgement while in a relationship, she's not for you, unless you are the type to go along with that. Sounds like you are not the type to go along with that. First time was a kiss and look how you felt, just imagine if she gets liquoured up and gets ridden like Seattle Slew? You'll feel gutted, best to move on

[mishsa]

no one deserves to be cheated on...why do u wanna be with someone you cant trust??

[tikteka57]

Nobody has he right to cheat on another person! I know how bad that feels when she tells you that she "kissed" another guy, while in the back of your mind you are wondering if that is all she really did. In my opinion i would let her go. Ask yourself if you can really ever trust her again.