Might have screwed up?

[GreatamericanChallenge]

Well I told a friend that I liked her more than a friend and now she is pretty much avoiding me at all costs. When I told her, she said that she figured that I liked her. She has a boyfriend however and she told me that she was confused about what to do. I kinda wish I hadn't told her because she was one of my best friends before that night. I wanna know how I either patch things up or get her to swing my way?

[sera300]

Leave her alone for awhile....she may just feel awkward around you right now,

[Newtolove]

yea I mean she is already in a relationship you have practically put her on the spot and want her to make a choice

[EvilEvilKitten]

No you didn't screw-up. But just let her be. Find others and learn to 'sport date'.

[Chino]

You did what you had to...otherwise you would have been sick for this girl for who knows how long while she tells you about what an ******* her boyfriend is and why can't he be more like you...

In terms of getting her to swing your way...let her roam and think about you. If she really feels anywhere near as strong for you as you do for her, she won''t be able to NOT think about you now that she doesn't see you as often. Also, feel it out after a couple of weeks. If she still seems to be avoiding you just bring it up. Let her know that you really value spending time with her - friend or otherwise - and you really didn't intend for your feelings to drive the 2 of you apart. Let her know that you simply had to let those feelings be known for your own sanity.

[GreatamericanChallenge]

Thanks, she just started talking to me today so.... I'll see what happens this weekend, she has never been able to stay mad at me for more than like a day so cause i just have that effect on people so i think if i can go with her once or twice then things might get better.

[mishsa]

just give her some space, let her come to you!!!

[andresmadera]

ya this kinda happened to me a couple months ago.... i felt so stupid and thought i lost a really good friend. like someone else said just give her some space and go with your gut feeling... like a couple days after it happened i told that i cant promise i wont like her in that way or nothing and if thats to much a problem for her ill just go that i didnt want drama. and she actually came back to me. i only see her now once every week or 2 but i really enjoy our time together and i know she does to.... only thing is now is i am so much more comfortable cuz i got it off my chest. anyway ya just give it time dont try to see her or call her so much. she will come to you. and i think the better way to think about this kinda thing cuz im sure like i did, you miss her. think of it like this. you dont want to miss her... you are trying to make her miss you. so its for a purpose... anyway good luck i hope it all works out for ya.