What to do?

[Robinsoa]

This is going to sound wierd but please read on.

I split up with my ex who i cared for alot about 3 weeks ago. In the mean time id developed feelings for a girl whos a much better catch. However i found out my ex still had feelings for me, so i am going out with her caus i had no chance with this other girl, and i needed a date for my prom.

However this new girl just revealed that she likes me. But i know she has never held down a very long realationship.

Would you guys take a chance and hurt the "girl u dont really like's feelings" or stick with the girl you've said youd go out with even if you dont want to anymore.

Thanks for your Time.

James

[sera300]

Don't waste your ex's time, your attitude is using someone for strictly your own needs and that's not very nice, in fact it's being a s**t head .

[Robinsoa]

Yes i know that was selfish, but i dont want to hurt her by cutting her off after asking her to prom. and i no i should have never of asked her anyway

[mishsa]

an ex is an ex for a reason. if the reason u broke up was serious id say just go for the new girl. if you dont you might miss out.

Think carefully.

why did you guys break up!?

[sera300]

Well;

If she did not buy her prom dress then call it off. If she did I think you need to keep to the commitment and escort her, but be certain she knows it's platonic in nature.

My point; it's not uncommon to back out of it, unless she purchased her dress. If you are not a couple and going, both need to be on the same page that's it's just an escorted event.

[Robinsoa]

Thanks for the advice, ill take it all into consideration. If anyone else would like to comment feel free

[mishsa]

do u not have some girl friends to go with in a bigger group

[mcsgirl]

you made a commitment to your ex - hold it up

if the other girl really likes you she'll wait and if you DO end up with this new girl make it a light, easy going thing

[Robinsoa]

Yes, i am going to honour my agreement. Whatever happens with the new girl will happen and i wont worry about it for now.

Thanks for all the help / ideas people

[EvilEvilKitten]

What is wrong with you? DATE THEM BOTH! You're not married here, fella!