How do I know?

[obaels]

I met this guy at a club about a year ago but changed my number soon after and therefore lost his, until I discovered it again about 6 weeks ago. I texted him and he wrote back and we were emailing, calling and smsing until we met for a date last night. It went really well, he was really affectionate, we saw a movie and kissed goodnight.. But in msgs today he's pretty sexually suggestive.. I'm pretty new to the 'adult' dating world, only turning 20 this year, and he's 23, so I'm not really sure about how soon is too soon for sexualness, and if it means he just wants sex?I'd really appreciate ANY help.

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[dancingdoc2]

> we met for a date last night. It went really well, he was really affectionate, we saw a movie and kissed goodnight.. But in msgs today he's pretty sexually suggestive.. I'm pretty new to the 'adult' dating world, only turning 20 this year, and he's 23, so I'm not really sure about how soon is too soon for sexualness, and if it means he just wants sex?I'd really appreciate ANY help.

The rules are there are no rules, however, there is a comfort zone and just simple etiquette and courtesies to consider. This is way too soon in my book to start sexual innuendos or overtures. He's doing a typical guy thing that is to put something out there like this and to see if the other person bites.

He does not seem interested in knowing more about you and as a natural progression, romancing you. If a guy follows this path, first, then the sexual aspects will likely follow in do time--and what's more, be much more rewarding. If his forwardness continues, I believe you should put the brakes on and let him know in no uncertain terms what is acceptable and what is not. If he truely cares about you, he'll tow the line.

[hotbabe]

How soon is too soon? You will know that. It's not the same for each person. It depends on many thing: it depends on how seriously he takes the relation, on how prepared you are and so on.