03-29-2007, 07:46 AM
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OK I am at a loss....please help?
To make a long story short.....I had been seeing a guy for over 6 months.....we use to do a lot together but towards the end it was clear that the relationship had become nothing more than a bootie call. During the last couple of months he was constantly bringing up one of his friends and saying how this friend had the "hots" for me and I would just laugh him off....he would then accuse me of having the "hots" for his friend.....I am wondering now if there was some truth to it....because the last couple of times we have run in to one another he has made passes at me.....and while I was in Vegas last month he sent me text messages.....last weekend we hooked up and hung out together.....I guess what I need help with is......do you think my now ex was right? if so how do I approach this? and yes I have to admit that I do think he is pretty sweet and wouldn't mind seeing him.....I just really don't know what to think.....
Any advice??? 
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03-29-2007, 07:49 AM
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If you want to date him do it. If the other relationship is over so be it. Nothing wrong with dating someone new.
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03-30-2007, 12:22 PM
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Well I guess I am too old for today's dating scene. My sister tells me to call him and ask him out. In my teenage years that was a no-no unless you were considered a couple or going "steady". Married for most of my young adulthood years I really find myself at a loss with this being single and dating at age 41. I guess I am afraid of chasing him off if I call him......
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03-30-2007, 12:23 PM
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almost forgot....the other relationship is over..
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03-30-2007, 12:28 PM
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Different rules at our age...you call him and ask him to meet you out for a drink or ask him over for dinner and make it yourself. I'm the same age as you, ask once & keep it casual if he declines move on, if he accepts it's on him next. It's not chasing it's merely asking a question! I would do it and have done it. You would ask a friend wouldn't you?
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03-30-2007, 12:34 PM
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Thanks for the advice.....never thought of it that way.....and yes I would ask a friend to dinner or even out for drinks.....less scary thinking about it in terms of being friends..... :-) I will let you know how it goes!
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04-06-2007, 02:31 PM
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great how did it go ?
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04-09-2007, 11:58 AM
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Well, dinner it was and it went pretty good. We went for a drive afterward and talked. I felt like a teenager all over again when we said goodnight at my door and he kissed me. Guess the next move is on him?
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04-09-2007, 12:24 PM
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Quote:
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04-09-2007, 01:47 PM
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great good luck
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