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Old 03-24-2007, 10:45 PM
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I have a friend and i really like, i have known her for almost a year now. We hang out all the time. However right now she has a boyfriend, the weird part is that we do more together than they do together. She will come to my work and surprise me and ask me to parties with her. She doesn't do this for her boyfriend. When her friends see us they think im her boyfriend because they have never seen him and they have been going out for a few months now. I wanna know if you think its okay to push forward even if she has a boyfriend?
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Old 03-25-2007, 01:01 AM
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Never get in the way of an existing relationship.

You should ask her what the status is of her relationship with the other fellow. If they are indeed a couple or and "item", then do not interfere or get into the middle of it.

Wait until that relationship ends before even considering going after her. Although, on that note, you can also tell her that you would like to be her b/f if and when the time is right and see what she says.
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she said it weird since we are such close friends and she said she could never date her best friend. But in the end isnt your lover your best friend? Im still confused because i think she only is with him because she afraid of losing a friend.
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Old 03-25-2007, 09:55 AM
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This is something for her to work out. Probably all you can do at this time is to support her and be her friend.

I agree that a strong foundation for a relationship is to be best friends, first.

If it is meant to be, it will be. All good things come to he who waits. (Or, so we hope, right?) Allow her the time to mature and gain a better perspective on her relationship with this other fellow. Also, consider the fact that during the teen years, few relationships last for more than several months. So, if you are in this age bracket, then is is more reason for hope.
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Old 03-25-2007, 07:45 PM
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yea thats what i thought but i wanted to hear it from someone, not my age and yea im 18 so i guess it might only last a bit, ill do what i can to be supportive.
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Old 03-26-2007, 12:08 PM
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YES!!! How much more interest does the girl have to show before you get the hint?
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