how to to get it going

[ailurus]

hi all, i am new here. I have come here to ask about starting a relationship. I have never had a proper girlfriend, but i have lots of friends who are girls (if that makes sense).
there is on girl who i really really like but i have no idea what to do to get things going. any tips?

cheers

[sera300]

Start talking to her and start flirting with her. Then ask her out on a date.

[BurtonDom]

basically what sera300 said... show more interest than you normally would.. flirt.. then when you feel comfortable ask her out on a date.. see where things go from there good luck

[nervousaboutitall]

one way im gonna argue with these other two members: if u really are new at all of it, flirting is hard to get right. if she already is a friend, spend alooot more time with her, call her, have conversations deeper that "how was your day?" dont ever forget that chivalry is not dead be kind, respectful, and polite. compliment her. be a good guy. if she's a good enough lass, she's recognize what a good person you are. learn to be smooth. listen intently to what she says and take every opportunity to turn a conversation in a way where u can drop a compliment. thats all i can say for now. good luck!

[James2007]

ask her out for a drink then take her back to your place, go to your local vet and ask for horse tranquilisers. *say your a farmer*

[ailurus]

cheers guys, thanks for the help. i probably should have mentionend this before but i forgot, she has a boyfriend already, but still thanks for the advice