women: what are you looking for?

[fatguyinaspeedo]

I know that all women are different, what one may want, another will be turned off by.

but i would like to her from women, as to what "makes it" in their book of men.

what makes a man, a man?

[Sirene]

Many women prefer their man to have a penis. They're simply not a man without a penis.

I think that answers your question.

[sera300]

That's the first place to start Sirene. But beyond that it varies from woman to woman. I want someone who is emotionally stronger then I yet has a soft (kind) & compassionate side. Must be accomplished, be able to keep up with me, affectionate, and confident; otherwise, I'll turn him into chopped meat by accident. Must love sex & have a strong libido to keep up w/mine. That's the best general statement I can make...

[yoe123]

I think you've brought up one the biggest issues ever, I think about this a lot, cuz i get frustrated a lot with women also, but let me give you an outcome of this thread, you will get many respones, and a lot are gonna be contradicting each other, the same reason some of them like it rough and some of them not.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Okay, you asked for it.

I want a man who is strong enough to be my equal.
I want a man courageous enough to be open, honest, and compassionate to me and to love me regardless.
I want a man who will forgive my flaws as I forgive his.
I want a man tough enough to stay with me through hell itself.
I want a man who needs and wants me and is not afraid to show that.
I want a man whose wit and charm can take me from enraged to laughing myself sick.

Fortunately, the very large teddybear I married 29 years ago IS all of those.

[fatguyinaspeedo]

the reason im asking is cause i dont get it.

relationships can be tricky things. all women are different, all look for different things. what will turn one on, will make another sick.

all i can do is be myself, otherwise, ill end up unhappy.....well actually both of us would.

but im sitting here thinking, "why am i 36 and still single?"

is it me? do i lack some trait that keeps me from women?

or just havent i found the right one one yet? am i one of those guys that cant commit?

im soooooo confused!

[sera300]

Do you have a fear of commitment????

[amy4stewie]

^ thats what i was just about to say.
Women like men who are confident with themselves - i think every lady will say the same thing.

With me a like a guy who thinks of himself equal to me. In past relationships i come across bossy and having a guy that lets me walk all over him is not fun for me or him - now its great i have a boyfriend who lets me get away with alot but also knows when enough is enough!

[foxdan]

As you get older the harder it gets to become attached (I think because there are fewer fish on the sea to say)
Some of us find our sole mates early and others later on then some of us have a divorce before we do.
The best is to be yourself and not to go looking your partner will come to you through your interests and activities.
Women are like men in a way
Most Men look at a woman’s body first and then find out they have a brain
Most Woman look at the mans personality and confidence (looks don’t hurt though)

I was 35 when I first met my mach and sole mate
Hang in there she is out there and it has got nothing to do with how you turn a woman on

[fatguyinaspeedo]

this is a question ive heard a lot, not towards me, but in general.

so, what is committment?

what is "fear of commitment?"

i know the text book answer on this one, but how does a woman see commitment in a man? or in a relationship?