Help :(

[Pink_Sparkles]

I couple of month's ago i had a one night stand with a close friend of mine were now dating. He makes me really happy and such but i need some advice from a few of you, He want's to take me out and i dont like it when a guy pay's over everything. i offerd to pay on the second date and still he doesnt want me to pay is this a male ego? he know's i love him alot also he seems like a good guy a few night's ago he asked me if i'd have a three sum with him and one of my girl friends i told him i would like to wait untill i can fully trust you and you know me well he agreed to wait. I'm okay with it it's just it may screw things up I need help please give me some advice.

[sera300]

Some men are weird about paying for a date. What I do if they refuse to let me pick up the tab? I make a nice home cooked meal (gourmet style) with a nice wine or champagne, dessert, and I will not let them pick up the dishes either.

The threeesome thing...cannot help you there. Read around the board, lots of posts on benefits/pitfalls.

[womanofsteel]

I agree with the home cooked meal thing.... Do up your dining room like your favorite place to eat.... or romantice picnic in the back yard... candle light and all. Splurge and go get some cloth napkins if you don't have them. Formal place settings (there's plenty of guides to this online if you're unsure), and don't forget a little background music and run off any roomie fofr the evening. Make him feel like you put alot of forethought into the evening and leave nothing to chance plan every little detail.

If you're not a cook, call him up and tell him your picking him up at a certain time and then take him to his favorite place and around the time of dessert excuse yourself to se the restroom and give the waiter your credit card and then when he brings you your bill sign and smile.... tel him he can make up for it when ya'll get home.

As for the 3some thing I can tell yu from experience if you do it you'll always wonder.... if he's the kinda guy you consider "marriage" material then don't do it. If he's great but just passing time have a ball.

Best of luck!
Womanofsteel