Long Distance Love

[pinky456]

ok durning winter break me and my BEST friends cousin hooked up, but he lives in pennsylvania right now with his mom but will be moving out here in the summer to go to college ( hes gonna be 18 and im 15,will people thinks it wierd?) anways hes back in pennsylvaina right now and we havent talked to each other in forever plus we both HATE talking on the phone which sux. lol but i sometimes feel like he doesnt like me or is doing things with other girls, but the thing is when we hooked up we did for like a whole week and all we did was make out but i was sooo cute cuz he asked me if he could kiss me and he was all nervous and that was my first kiss ever so i was like terrifed and then after that we were like inseprable and we made out every night and he didnt want me to leave but the good thing was i stayed the night at my friends house where my bf was so we could hang out more,and then he told me hes liked me for 5 YEARS!! and was to scared to make a move cuz he thought i didnt like him which really i was in love with him, and then someother things happened, but should i be worried that hes doing things with other girls and stuff? also i just found out he is in rehab now for alcohol and stuff and thats one of the reasons he doesnt call and i dont no what i should do!!! should leave him or stay with him through his time of need and then when he moves back out here this summer it will be better

[mcsgirl]

i'm in a long distance relationship
when we met he was 14 and i was 16 lol so no i dont think ur situation is much more weird
we've been dating for 7 months while he lives in new jersey and i live in wisconsin.

worrying about what he's doing is only going to hinder your relationship - NOT help it - trust is key (as corny as is sounds) and if you're really that insecure then you shouldn't be dating him

as for the phone stuff - he's not a talkitive person and i normaly dont like the phone but i talk to my boy maybe ever other night on the phone becuz i love hearing his voice (i'm girly like that) otherwise we're always online

[sera300]

If he has had no contact with you, forget him. Maybe it was fun at the time but if he wanted to maintain a relationship he would have. Let it go for now, it was fun when it was happening, look back with a smile. My opinion only.