New guy - he's just out of relationship; so confused.

[kt8768]

ok so im talking to a new guy. and well he jsut got out of a bad 2 year relationship. there was cheating and well im goina save you all the drama but it didnt end with them being friends. and she broke his heart. so hes scared to get back into a serious relationship.but thats all that i want and he knows this. we both like each other a lot and everything but i was wondering what i should doo. we hang out all the time. and when were together its amazing. i couldnt ask for anything better. hes all ive been waiting for.but im wondering if its bad to like do things with people even if yor not together and are not sure its goina work outt bc of the sercomestances. even if you guys really like each otherr. im needing some helpp. and one know what to doo?

[dancingdoc2]

It usually is not a good idea to establish a serious relationship on the heels of a roubound. Better I believe to just date, take it long and slow and let him recover from the past relationship. After a year, take stock of your situation and see where your heads are.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Always be prepared to walk away and treat him lightly. Anything more definite will only cause him to either run or cling - neither of which is desirable.