He's going to Prom without me - dont know what to do

[sexychick_0308]

ok my boyfriend is a senior in high school..and prom is coming up next month ...well im not allowed to go because i am a freshman and we cant go. but he i asked him if he is still gong and he said yes..should i be worried that something might happen or not...or should i be mad that he is going to go with someone else??? i dont know what to do

[sera300]

Is he just going w/a female friend? Someone you know? Why will they not let you go? Because of your age?

[madeye]

that is crazy you cant go.

cause its his prom and he should be allowed to take you.

My school was sen and jun only

BUT

all tickets are for two people and its the ticket buyers choice to bring anyone they please. some people brought freshman, some people brought people out of high school.

as long as the ticket buyer is a senior/junior i dont see why they would stop you from being his date

I personally am not much for following rules, seriously its his prom talk about a way to get around this bull**** regulation.

and if you cant, i dont think you should be mad, dissapointed yes but not mad. any after party or after event he should be able to include you in on. only thing you would miss is ****ty music with bad dancing.

[sera300]

I have to agree, it's a pretty awful rule but you are not missing much, like Madeye said just a bunch of really bad music!

[sexychick_0308]

yea well they wont let any of the freshman go and i think that it is crap because it his is last year there and i cant even go with him..but i dont know..cause last year he went with someone and i had no idea who it was or anythign

[madeye]

well you do have a right to know who hes taking, you gotta have some leverage and capability to put your foot down and demand respect in some cases.

assuming the age gap you may be afraid to do so, you just really gotta feel like you deserve to be treated in a way you treat him.

If he wont tell who hes going with and what hes doing after the prom it may be time to put your foot down and take a serious stance on the level of respect for you in the relationship. Passionately stand up for your self-respect at all cost! no love or relationship is worth sacrificing your self respect for. Until you show that too him not much will change.

[sera300]

I think at best he owes you an explaination as to who is attending w/him. This is the same guy you have been w/for 1 1/2 years? I know in certain circumstances a friend will go as the date, yet there is no romantic intent, it's just that a date for an event...if he does not make you feel comfortable, then rethink the relationship & why can you not go to one of the parties afterwards?

[sexychick_0308]

yea this is the same guy i have been dating for a year 1/2 and last year he went and i did not know who he went with or what he did afterwards cause he didnt tell me the only thing i knew was that he was drunk..so i dont know what was going on??? but i mean i dont want to break up but i just dont know if i will be able to trust him going with someone else....

[sexychick_0308]

yea i know he should tell me who he is going with i do have a right to know im his girlfriend..but he doesnt he doesnt tell me anything...and thats what i dont know what to do....just like when he went to prom last year we were going out and i had no idea who he went with or wat happened afterwards except that he was drunk..so i really dont know what he did or nanything.

[sera300]

Listen to Madeye...