how to let a girl know you like her

[eliot09]

Well I met this girl in one of my classes and decided to introduce myself about a week ago. We talked for a few minutes before class one day and after it was over I asked if she would join me for a cup of coffee. We talked for about an hour and it went pretty well, I think. We have met up a couple of times since then, I asked if she wanted to study before an exam but we stayed off topic most of the time. She hasn't really given me any signs, it could be that shes being subtle or maybe she gives me the time of day out of pity, but I was wondering what could I do or say to let her know I'm into her?

[sera300]

If she had no interest she would not continue to spend time with you. She would have been long gone, the last thing we want to do is subject ourselves to someone we have no interest in. Ask her out for dinner...

[Sirene]

I wouldnt be so formal at first. Ask her for a few beers after class & go to a bar or something.

[Sirene]

Originally Posted by eliot09

Well I met this girl in one of my classes and decided to introduce myself about a week ago. We talked for a few minutes before class one day and after it was over I asked if she would join me for a cup of coffee. We talked for about an hour and it went pretty well, I think. We have met up a couple of times since then, I asked if she wanted to study before an exam but we stayed off topic most of the time. She hasn't really given me any signs, it could be that shes being subtle or maybe she gives me the time of day out of pity, but I was wondering what could I do or say to let her know I'm into her?

One hint, get nicely lubed up & when she bends over rip down her pants & stick it in her bum hole.
Thats sure to get you noticed & then she'll deffo know you like her.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Ask her out for "drinks". If she says yes - then she's interested, if not then she isn't. Easy enough.

[madeye]

I think i know exaclty what this situation is

Its a lack of sexual tension.

i would bet the two of you are both interested and you have physical barrier that is keeping you from flirting and being playfull.

On the first date its one thing to have a cup of coffee or chill at a library.

cause you want comfort.

but if she is going on a second date you have to be a bit more agressive.

and not aggressive meaning that your going to try and screw her.

but aggressive in that your not gonna hide your physical attraction to her.

a women always gives signs when she wants this to happen

ITS YOUR DUTY to create situations to physically engange in building attraction.

The first step is eye contact, the second step is to converse closely to each other and at hightened moments of the conversation make the move for physical contact.

placing your hand on a womens fore arm while telling an interesting story while making eye contact is the answer your looking for mate.

Once you establish a comfortable interest in each other you have to directly trying to actively build attraction.

dont be scared or intimidated AND NEVER EVER EVER fear rejection.

rejection is BS, you know what you need to fear..........

Fear lacking the courage to try and never finding out what could have been, that is 100 times scarier than rejection!

[EvilEvilKitten]

Tsk tsk tsk madeye - NEVER touch a woman before she touches you! She has to make 'first contact'. Your job is make her comfortable enough and attracted enough to want to touch you. So sit close, make and hold eye contact for at least 20 seconds at a time, sparkle - be of good cheer, and give her the impression that you are more than willing to accede to her carnal desires.

[eliot09]

Thanks for the advice, but I still have one more question. This girl is somewhat shy and I was wondering what kind of "signs" would she give if she is interested?

[sera300]

Does she look you in the eyes? Has she lightly touched you? Does she sit near you? Just ask her to go out for a drink (not coffee either).

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by eliot09

Thanks for the advice, but I still have one more question. This girl is somewhat shy and I was wondering what kind of "signs" would she give if she is interested?

Come on, Eliot, this was answered, way up above.

Originally Posted by sera300

If she had no interest she would not continue to spend time with you.

In addlition: If she is smitten with you, she will be looking for excuses to be around you. She will perhaps touch your hand or arm to emphasize a statement. She will smile when talking and be looking for eye contact. She will be close to you rather than standing or sitting some distance away. She will be chatty and talking about all manner of topics. At some point she may invite you on a date or to be her escort to some event. If she is interested in you she will often rearrange her schedule to accommodate something special with you, or, if not possible to offer an alternative date and time. If she is interested in you, she'll be near by.