i need help

[fightoffyourdemons]

i like a girl and shes been a really good friend of mine since we were both in the 1st grade. well i'm 18 and she is 17 which is legal in Missouri. well me and her have played around before. "dry humping", making out and a hand job. we were young... well she's developed into a really good friend and a really sexy one at that and all these feelings are coming back. but sadly...only in a sexual way...what do i do to be able to "fool around" but keep a really good friendship?

[sera300]

See id she has any interest in FWB, BUT is it worth risking the entire relationship/friendship over? What do you do if one develops feelings, etc? It can really ruin the relationship if both parties are not in full agreement that it's a friendship w/sex being a seperate part.

[madeye]

Plenty fish in the sea.

And having this attractive women you have such a good bond with will make you more attractive to other women.

go to parties with her and flirt with each other in the beginning and you will both be plesently surprised how much more attractive you will appear to everyone else.

Its a simple theory of the desired is always more desirable

the other problem is if you harbor these sexual feelings its going to be really hard for another women to date you or another man to date her while you guys have this tension.

You gotta see the big picture and realize you can make out with and get hand jobs from women in situations where there is not so much history and friendship to risk.

seriously bro your 18 its time to get your confidence on and start meeting other women instead of trying to tap the friendship well for some action.

keep the big picture in mind, and put these impulses on the shelf.