Question about my **** buddy. He acts like I'm more, then acts like I'm a last resort

[dreamyscape]

He's driving me crazy!
I kissed another guy in front of him the other night and he acted like he was pissed. Then the next night ignored me until I told him I regreted kissing that guy. And the guy just so happened to be a friend of his, not my finest moment. Then last night he was making out with two very hot chicks and easily could have gone home with either of them, but didn't and went home with me. We work together at a bar and he never acts like we are messing around, almost like he doesn't want anyone to know, even though everyone knows. We have great chemistry and I will admit, I do like him and he knows it. Sometimes he acts like he likes me then other times he acts like I'm just a friend. I don't know if I should bring it up and see if what I'm thinking is true. Because if it's not, it will screw things up. I like things the way they are, and even though I'd like more sometimes, I don't want to loose him as a friend or a fb. I know having feelings for him mucks things up and I could possibly get hurt, but I don't want to close the door on this or him.

[sera300]

I would just talk to him, if you are sleeping with him you should be able to openly communicate to a degree. Just ask him what's going on.

[HardNgood]

Well the title of the thread indicates that the two of you are f**k buddies, so realize that and leave the emotions out of it. No strings attached sex got it, nothing more, nothing less. A warm wet place to stick it and a soft place to land without getting all gouey with emotions. That is what FWB are for.

[EvilEvilKitten]

FWB = FRIENDS with benefits - not "FB" or **** buddies. FWB is with emotion FB is not.

To him, you are a FB while you are trying to make this into a FWB relationship.
Hold off, back up and kiss whomever you please - you aren't married to him after all and if he can make out so can you. Make him do the chasing and worrying. So what if he gets pissed - plenty more where he came from!