I Need Help Big Time

[this_guy]

Ok I am in a relationship, that will hit its one year on March Tenth. In the whole relationship I have tried to be romantic, I do everything I can, and I am very little of the time, but then I either Screw it up, or its not even romantic. I dont know what to do, I dont know how to be Romantic, I am the last guy to come to for romantic tips, Could someone if not all of you PLEASE help me with this problem, it is huge to me, I want to show her I can be a romantic person because I love her to death.

[i-cuddle]

send her twelve roses, 11 red and 1 white, write on the card that once in a lifetime yo find someone so wonderful that you can tell she is so special just looking at her. say she is the one white flower and out of so many she is the one for you

[foxdan]

Lay rose petals all down the hall way to the bath, have rose buds in a nice hot bath with candles lit waiting for her to get home with a nice glass of wine …. With a note saying I each petal represents a piece of my heart I have given to you. When I put all the petals together I found it to be a beautiful rose, thank you for making my heart complete and whole.

Remember romance comes from the heart and what ever you do out of love will be romantic even if she saw this post you made it will show her that you care and you are a romantic.

Good luck and I take my hat off to you for trying

[madeye]

can you cook?

cause my version of romance is a personally cooked meal, a bottle of whine, candles and privacy.

and then i use scented oil back massage to start up the love making.

women also love pictures!

so along with a romantic card get a really nice picture of the two of you together. and on the back list your top 10 favorite memories with her.

i personally let my romantic feelings show in a practical way i dont get to crazy with writing poetic stuff or being to out spoken about love. Cause i come to the reality that im just not that person and any attempt to write about love just doesnt fit my personality so i just dont. so whatever it is you do make sure it fits your personality.

i think love is all about the moments you spend together not what you say to each other.

so make it about the moment and do it within your own personality flavor and you should be set

good luck

[foxdan]

Originally Posted by i-cuddle

send her twelve roses, 11 red and 1 white, write on the card that once in a lifetime yo find someone so wonderful that you can tell she is so special just looking at her. say she is the one white flower and out of so many she is the one for you

Nice one somthing i will use to thank you

[EvilEvilKitten]

Grand gestures are all very well, but true 'romance' consists of the 'little things' like gently toying with a strand of her hair, when walking placing your hand on the small of her back, holding her lightly in your arms for no reason at all and saying nothing.

[Newtolove]

This looks like a great candidate for a sticky: a list of romantic ideas....

[this_guy]

hey you all thank you VERY much for the ideas i do apperciate it specially the 11 red 1 white rose i love that idea and the reas are good as well ... espeically love the wine part .... now if only i could find someone to get that for a 19 year old ... lol thank you all very much

[Oohlala]

I agree with EEk.

Try the little things.

Always open doors for her, walk around the car and open that door for her, pull out her chair for her before she sits down, remove her jacket for her and hang it. If you are at a restaurant allow her to order first, or order for her once she decides what she is having.

Chivalry is not dead! It is a HUGE turn on for many woman.