How do you Tell if your being hit on ?

[Scotty_AU]

hi Scotty from au how do you tell if you are being hit on im around girls all the time and I seem to never be able to tell when im being hit on any advice ?

[madeye]

Im a strong believer in eye contact. make it and hold it.

physical flirting. when you strongly agree or something is very funny you find a way to comfortable make physical contact.

the other thing is a women who is not attracted to you wont be as interested in stretching a conversation out.

so you allow a comfortable silence and she then goes so.......

that sounds trivial but trust me that says alot. cause a women whos mind is on another man would just find an awkward silence as an excuse to just talk to someone else or go to the bathroom exct....

the other trick is holding her hand.

ask her to go somewhere with you. like to get a drink for example.

and then lead her by her hand.

and if a women is attracted to you she will close her hand somewhat tightly into yours.

and a women who is not will politely allow the hands to more so rest lightly connected.

keep all these things in mind and just keep making confident eye contact.

[Ephemera]

Eye contact is probably the biggest thing when starting. Depending on your age, this will stretch from short, sweet, embarassed connections to long lasting, sensual eye-****s.

If a girl has no interest in you she won't look at you, and probably won't begin conversations with you.

[sdrawkcab m'i]

Originally Posted by Ephemera

If a girl has no interest in you she won't look at you, and probably won't begin conversations with you.

It depends on your definition of interest. Girls start conversations with me all the time, and I respond, and we have a conversation. Our conversations don't mean that she is in love with me, or I with her. If your friends, either gender can start the conversation without one loving the other.

I realize our definitions differ, but thats just my 2 cents.

[Manlysurfie]

This confuses me too as today I was with the girl I like and her friends, one of which I was apparently flirting with. I've only just met this girl and I really like her but now shes pissed off at me and tells me that if I really liked her I wouldn't have been flirting. I hate it because I was just trying to be friendly and talk to her friends as it's the first time I've met them for longer than 5 minutes.

Any advice on how I can prove i don't like her friend but her instead?

[Newtolove]

apparently ? according to who ? either you don't know what your doing or she needs to grow up after all what does she consider flirting ? evidently she likes you a lot too

[Manlysurfie]

The girl, my friend and the girl I was ment to be hitting on. I still don't think I did though, just a misinterpretation of me being nice to her friend.