Getting it Started

[eliot09]

Well here it goes, there is this girl I have been infatuated with for the past few days and recently I shared a cup of coffee with her and she gave me the pleasure of engaging me in an hour long conversation. All the time I was feeling the urge to tell her how I feel towards her. If you ask me if I like her I must simply say that I detest the phrase, for what can you say about a man who just merely likes B, whose whole heart and feelings are not completely immersed in her? Well any input would be welcomed.

[girl12]

I would wait until you both are more comfortable around each other, and then tell her. That way it won't seem like things are moving too fast. Wait a little while, get to know her better and let her get to know you better.

[EvilEvilKitten]

If you have her phone number call and ask her out on a specific date. If she agrees, good. Have a good time but do not spill your guts out about your feelings. Your feelings don't matter - only HER feelings about you matter. If she does not agree to go out and does not suggest a specific alternative, then just move on and let her go. The LAST thing you ever want to appear is LDH: lonely, desperate and horny.