He Doesnt Want Sex!!!!!!!! Help Me Asap!

[mishsa]

omgosh guys, the worst thing, i posted that thing, he doesnt believe me. Well he doesnt want to have sex at all.
For those of you that dont know whats going on heres the 411

my boyfriend has been with one girl right.
so he says that he isnt big enough, he isnt as good and he isnt pleasing me, i dont enjoy sex.
so thats what he said to me.
NONE OF THIS IS TRUE.


now my current boyfriend whom im completely in love with says he doesnt want to have sex with me

WHAT CAN I DO..
i dont wanna stop havng sex, caus it feels amazing. and i sure as hell dont wanna break up with him, caus he is amazing..

ASAP please!!!

[sera300]

What can you do? End the relationship!!! You say he is "amazing" then why are you complaining? Any man who cared about you would not do these things to you, wake up and smell the coffee, he is warped.

[SexySass69]

There's an issue if he's jealous over something in your past. He should understand that he's gifted to have the present with you!

[Sirene]

Originally Posted by mishsa

omgosh guys, the worst thing, i posted that thing, he doesnt believe me. Well he doesnt want to have sex at all.
For those of you that dont know whats going on heres the 411

my boyfriend has been with one girl right. and ive been with two.
so he says that he isnt big enough, he isnt as good and he isnt pleasing me, i dont enjoy sex and i would rather have my ex's dick in me..
so thats what he said to me.
NONE OF THIS IS TRUE.
an ex is an ex for a reason. and i dont want him at all.
im over this!!!!

now my current boyfriend whom im completely in love with says he doesnt want to have sex with me, caus all he see's is me and my ex. OUCH

WHAT CAN I DO..
i dont wanna stop havng sex, caus it feels amazing. and i sure as hell dont wanna break up with him, caus he is amazing..

ASAP please!!!

What you can do is stop talking about your ex, dont mention him again. Keep reassuring him that he's amazing too. In time he may forget a little.

Too often new partners talk about their exes too much.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Since you cannot change the past it is stupid to worry about it.
You REALLY need to dump this guy and move on!!

[HardNgood]

He needs to MATURE. The trade deadline is fast approaching, you better MOVE HIM now!

[foxdan]

The past is the past he must get over his insecurities and see who you are with now. Never talk about your ex with him even if he is better. Rather tell him what you want from him and in a nice way tell him that you are craving to make love to him.

[Sirene]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Since you cannot change the past it is stupid to worry about it.
You REALLY need to dump this guy and move on!!

It might be worth keeping him. He might be a good one, insecure or not.

Its easy to say dont worry about the past, but its not so easy to stop thinking about it & letting it effect you.

[HardNgood]

Originally Posted by Sirene

It might be worth keeping him. He might be a good one, insecure or not.

Its easy to say dont worry about the past, but its not so easy to stop thinking about it & letting it effect you.

the past is the past bro, nothing you can do about it. the only positive thing and the only thing you can have any control on is the PRESENT. it's not like she cheated on him, he isn't BIG enough to understand that she was getting shagged by some other guy before he was in the picture

[sera300]

How does it make him a "good one" if he is not the least bit considerate of her feelings? A relationship is about both people giving and taking. Don't you think it's a abnormal when the past influences the current relationship to the point the person completely shuts down?