No sex for how long?

[ShyGuyAmI]

How long should a new couple wait before they should have sex?

[cjb1981]

The easiest kind of question to answer; when both of you feel ready for it.

[sera300]

Shy:

You ARE going to drive yourself nuts...stop worrying about all this stuff! You will not screw it up! VD day is a good day.

[ShyGuyAmI]

We both are wondering how soon whould be too soon and we both want it now and I feel that we are ready and I am hoping that she feels the same and not being driven by lust and it is too soon for her.

[Quint Notwen]

Originally Posted by ShyGuyAmI

We both are wondering how soon whould be too soon and we both want it now and I feel that we are ready and I am hoping that she feels the same and not being driven by lust and it is too soon for her.

Are you ready now? Are you secure in your choice? Do you have condoms, is she set up with birth control? Do you love her and everything else?

If you feel the need, and feel like you are responsible enough to do it, then do it! If not, then don't. Obviously the answer of, 'is this the right time', is only going to be answered by you and your partner, no one else.

[ShyGuyAmI]

I know. I just talked to her we are putting it off for a while.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Not driven by lust? Look you can "love" all you want but if there's no "lust" nothing's going to happen. They BOTH have a legitimate place in a relationship.