I juss want a final answer

[CraftMacclove]

So ive known this guy im goin it with for a month but we've only been dating for 2 and half weeks. last friday i spent the night with him and we ended up having sex. At that time and moment i was fine wit it bc to tell u the truth i kinda wanted to have sex with him bc like they say u gotta test drive before u fully committe. Well he was pretty awesome in bed. Intense sex i must say. BTW im 18 and hes gon be 21 juss to put that in there. Weeeelll we woke up sat morning and he had to go to work and i had to get back home anyways. (He lives in LA and i live in riverside) so i drive him to work, he gives me a kiss and everything seems great. Well now he hasnt even tried to keep in contact with me. I call him and text him to see when we're gonna hang out again and all i get from him is a mean text saying that i need to back off bc when he doesnt pick up that means he busy. i text him back sorry for being his gf and showing i care about him. all i want to kno is if i ****ed it up bc i gave everything up so early?? he is my first serious boyfriend and i was a virgin so im not gonna lie, i wanted to kno wat sex is all about. i juss wanna kno if this guy juss played me?? he had his game planned out to reel me in, get some booty and then throw me out. All i want from him is a final answer on if we're together or not. he wont contact me so should i juss assume its all over?? someone help me out

[HardNgood]

Yep,Looks like HE got what he wanted. Got himself a virgin and moved on to talk about it!

[CraftMacclove]

see thats wat i thought. boys like to rip ur heart apart by doing **** like that.
w/e
at least the sex was great.
no loss in my book.
bc ive havent meet that person i want to share my life wit yet so im like a guy with sex.
if i can get some im down.
He got wat he wanted..well so did I!
But he hasnt offically broken up wit me so wat should i do to break up with him?
Leave him a voicemail?
Leave him a email?
Leave it in a message through myspace?
wat?

[EvilEvilKitten]

Hey, girl, you just have to back-off and move on.

The sex was fine but next time do NOT go spilling out your heart like you did. You came on far too strongly. You are NOT his gf. He is NOT your bf and No, you really do NOT love him. Do NOT send him anything - just say nothing to him, period; as if he never existed.

One night of sex does NOT a relationship make.

[Old Kid]

And, the more you cling the worse it gets. Nothing scares a guy off faster than a clingy chick. Brings up images of "Fatal Attraction"

[sera300]

Remember? I said a good romp in the bed does not constitute a relationship? It was good sex & that is it. NEVER contact him; if he tries to contact you (I doubt he ever will) DO NOT respond!

Don't look at it as you were "used"...YOU did what YOU wanted & ENJOYED it. Sex is sex; just keep it perspective. You are young, let me tell you what a good friend told me, a man, when it comes to sex keep your emotions seperate & never bring up the "L" word in bed. This is no insult to the men reading, but when women stick emotions into sex (not a relationship) it's bad news...

[CraftMacclove]

I juss want to say thanxs for all the advice.

Next time i'll kno wat to do and wat NOT to do.

Im young
gotta learn from the mistakes
and i kno i was in NO WAY IN LOVE WIT HIM

If anything it was more lust than love.

W/e im done and over with him.
He was a waste of my time

Thanxs again everyone!

[Sirene]

Aww isn't she nice?

[Old Kid]

Someone once said, "It's good to learn from your mistakes, just don't get a PHD at it"

[calibird]

wat if the GUY says the "L" word in bed? does that mean bad news too?