Realtionship of 6 years over. Still do the same things but no intimacy?!

[Phamine]

We still see each other often, sleep and cuddle in the same bed, change in front of each other even shower together.

Intimacy is missing, not much kissing and sex is gone. I think she has lost "chemistry" for me. I wonder if I can do anything to get it sparked up again.

I don't know if this type of relationship is normal. I am thinking maybe she needs to be with other men since I have been for the most part her only partner in her life.

Should I continue the dynamic of this type of relationship? I do not know how to go about with it. I would like more - I want to have the intimacy.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Move on.
The 'spark' has gone. Most likely because you have stopped being male enough and have become a meek little mouse.
Do NOT see her, talk to her, or let her into your bed again.
If she chases after you, then you have to get demanding - either she 'steps-up; or she's history.
If she doesn't chase after you, then she is history.

[Phamine]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Move on.
The 'spark' has gone. Most likely because you have stopped being male enough and have become a meek little mouse.
Do NOT see her, talk to her, or let her into your bed again.
If she chases after you, then you have to get demanding - either she 'steps-up; or she's history.
If she doesn't chase after you, then she is history.

Thank you for being real. I think you are right about she seeing me less of a man. It hurts yet a sense of relief hearing someone say that.

[Sirene]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Move on.
The 'spark' has gone. Most likely because you have stopped being male enough and have become a meek little mouse.
Do NOT see her, talk to her, or let her into your bed again.
If she chases after you, then you have to get demanding - either she 'steps-up; or she's history.
If she doesn't chase after you, then she is history.

How would one "be a man" with out displaying a great male ego that makes men look like tossers?

[EvilEvilKitten]

By being calm, confident, and able to say "No, I'd rather you didn't come over." or "No, I can't make it."

[Sirene]

Shouldnt a guy do everything for his girl & make her feel special?
It would hurt if my girl said "No, I'd rather you didn't come over".
It pleases me doing things for her. Im not a door mouse though.

[sera300]

Sirene:

It sounds like w/this guy she is bored and uninterested. If you do stuff for your girl, she prob. expresses appreciation for it, not apathy. They sound as if they have become a bad habit.