More than friends w/benfits

[sunflower]

My spouce left me for another women. We are not divorced, yet but will be. I started a FWB thing with someone I've know for years. I'm falling for that person. He wants to take it slow, but said he will want more from the relationship when I am divorced. But on the other hand he said he has commitment issues. I want more from the relationship, or at least have sex more then once a week, but he will not see me more than once a week. I know he thinks the sex is great so that is not the problem. We talk every day, but he does not want to see me more than once a week. I'm confused. He want me to call him every day and if I don't call he calls me. What is with the once a week sex thing. Do I tell him how I feel? I'm scared of chasing him away if I say to much to soon. So do I say how I feel, just wait and see what happens, or just call it off. I'm scared of getting hurt again.

[SexySass69]

I think that you should do a search for other friends with benefits threads. I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but generally FWB is an issue if there is a desire for emotional fulfillment too.

[sunflower]

When it started I was not looking for more. It just happen. This has been going on between us for 2-3 months. I just started to fall for him.

[sera300]

If you have just seperated from your spouse and are pending a divorce, give yourself time. Jumping into another emotional attachment is not good, either you have to be happy with the way it is w/him or end it. In fact he is right about taking it slow...

[Beans518]

He's a rebound guy. He knows it, you know it. He's just the only one that can see it right now. FWB's are supoosed to be just that. They never work on a committment level.

[sunflower]

he is not the rebound guy. I have been out with other men before I started this with this guy.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Move on, girl. You should be seeing as many people simultaneously as is possible. There is no need to 'settle down' just yet. Go out and have some fun! BTW it generally takes two years to recover from a previous relationship so stop being in such a hurry to go 'exclusive'.