I've known the guy for a month...

[CraftMacclove]

So heres my story: i've been talkin to this guy off the internet for about a month now. we have amazing chemistry and he wanted to be with me even before me met in person. i meet him in person for the first time about a week ago and we hit it off right away. it was like we were meant to be. we've only been on 2 dates and i already had sex wit him but theres many more dates to come and he promises me he really wants to be with me juss how i want to be wit him. im 18 and i was a virgin and hes 20 turning 21. i told him i was a virgin and he respected my decision on wantin to wait. But things got heated and we ended up having sex like i said.Rememeber i got to kno this guy for a month before we met up and we offically became a couple and then had sex on the 2nd date.

should i have waited longer??

Juss give me some feedback on how ya'll feel

[sera300]

Should you have waited?
Do you regret your decision?
If you do, then yes, you should have.
If you do not, then no.
It's after the fact, you did what you wanted, you have to be happy with it not us.

[CraftMacclove]

u kno ur right
i actually dont regret the decision

i juss dont want him thinkin im easy bc i slept with him on the second date
i ask him and he says im not being easy but of course he would say that bc he wants some...

theres juss so many things running through my head
i tend to worry and things and overanalyze them and it stresses me out
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[sera300]

Okay, he will think what he wants about you, too late to worry about that. But if you were a virgin you did not just hop in the sack w/every guy who comes around. If you told him none until marriage he may think you are a prude. If he is worth anything he will base who you are about on what he has gotten to know about you. Do you think less of him for sleeping w/you?

I have slept w/a guy on a second date, but I am comfortable w/my decisions but I am a lot older then you are. Stop over-analyzing and enjoy. See where the relationship takes you, get to know him as a person, and let him do the same.

[CraftMacclove]

no i dont think less of him for sleepin with me bc to tell u truth i kinda wanted it too..

Everything ur saying makes and lot of sense

thanxs for the advice!
=]

[sera300]

BTW: Just take it for what it is, as you said you wanted to sleep w/him. It was sex; it does not imply a relationship nor do you have to do it again. Now, get to know each other, use BC, and have some fun...

[CraftMacclove]

well the guy is my boyfriend
im not sure if i mentioned that or not..

[EvilEvilKitten]

Now you are getting ahead of yourself, Craft, he is still just some guy you met over the Internet. Not your bf, yet.

Why I said that is you said "waiting until marriage" and yet he didn't respect you enough to STOP letting things 'get heated'.

So let us look at the reality here: he got sex and you got to go 'back on your word'. However misguided, when you state a position in a relationship, you stick with it, until YOU change your mind by yourself without outside influences present. In a way, yes, you were easy - you caved at the first tremor of desire. In a way - so was he.