I cannot talk dirty!!!

[Whitechocolate38555]

I have a new intrest in my life and he enjoys talking dirty over the phone. While i am an open sexually person this is coming as a challenge to me. I have no idea what to say. Can you all help me? Any ideas would be great, and any actually things to say would be better!!!

[bryrw06]

i am fairly similar. sexually i am very open, i struggle to speak dirty because i think it sounds really cheesey and fake...!

[Whitechocolate38555]

That is my issue. I am more of a let's do it rather than talk about it person. He is soooo into it though so that's why i need help.

[bryrw06]

ok well to begin with i'd try and stay really straightforward and describe how you'd run your hands across his chest and you'd kiss his neck and gently nibble his nipples....i think by starting off not being very smutty just a bit sensual you'll prob get more used to saying it and then you can develop it... good luck

[EvilEvilKitten]

Interesting how women seem to think they have to change for him. Well, tell him how you feel if you want to. Tell him what you want, desire, whatever.
I don't say much during sex - but I am noisy *EG*. The thing is do what you are into plus a bit of what he wants - this is a partnership - but he has to move toward you as well.

[Whitechocolate38555]

I'm not trying to change. I am a loud person too though!! I have never been with anyone who has had an intrest in this though. I want to experiment with it to see if i do enjoy it though.

[Zan]

just dont strain yourself thinking what to say, it is hotter if the words just roll off your tongue... relax, have fun with it.

[SexySass69]

You may want to consider a few little dialogs to fall back on. Once you mention something like wrapping him up in aluminum foil or something really out there, you may want to be able to go to a more traditional dirty talk scenario- like fantasies that you normally wouldn't indulge.

And don't worry, your partner should be thrilled that you're even trying. (I'm pretty good at talking dirty over the phone, but the man I love pretty much isn't. He gets to panting like a dog and it's impossible to understand him. LOL)

Good luck and happy humping.

[EvilEvilKitten]

then say whatever comes to mind even if it is "a little more to the left."