Conflicting Confusion (Threesome)

[heretoplease]

Hello Everyone. This post deals primarily with some recent developments in my relationship of approximately 4 years. The other day, my girlfriend and I were just running some errands and somehow our topic of conversation took on a sexual theme. As it progressed she said, somewhat randomly, that she could totally see herself having a threesome because she would not be the type to get done and be all worried about her sexuality and such. After discussing the matter a little further she also indicated that she was sure the physical pleasure would be amazing. We went back to our errands and sort of forgot about it for a while. At dinner that night, she brought it up again and said something along the lines of how the emotional jealousy of me with another girl or of feeling like she cheated on me with another guy (despite being in a 3-some situation) would be what stopped her from trying it. With this I brought up some ideas about laying down boundaries as far as what was allowed and such and she responded with a casual "I suppose". This conversation took place before and after dinner, which at the end of I ended up giving her cunnilingus until she had quite a powerful and draining orgasm. Basically I am a little uncertain as to where she sits on this topic. It was never something she had even expressed an interest in until now. More information on how to talk to her about it without being too pushy or overzealous on the subject would be ideal. Thanks in advance for the help.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Talk about this 'jealousy' thing she told you about - have her explain it to you. You two have to explore that one issue not only before a threesome event, but just for your relationship in general because jealsouy does NOT mean love - jealousy means fear and mistrust. That is where you start.