The Odor of Oral

[sweetcheeks2006]

Hey.... first time post.. anyway, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years.
During most of this time he has been attending college 9 hours away from our hometown
while I stayed here to get my degree. We've still managed to incorporate a little fun
into our relationship. We've done pretty much everything except intercourse (we're
waiting for marrage) and he's fingered me quite a lot. I've given him oral on several
occations but he's never return the favor. Since we are so far away our communication
skills are great and i asked him one night why he hadn't given me oral yet after he
introduced the subject and he told me that on several occations he had planned on it but
he said it "smelled funny". He told himself he would the next time, but so far next time
hasn't come.
I do shower and keep that area clean, but his comment still made an impact and i
can't get it out of my head. Has anyone went through this same problem? Are there and
products that might help? Any stratigies we can try? I would really appriciate it, thanks.

[unknown11]

you are doing everything that you need to be doing. maybe take a shower with him and tell him to wash your area for you so he wont complain. then if its not good enough for him still. then try bringing some fruit or other fun things into the bedroom

[EvilEvilKitten]

If after all of the showering etc - and he still complains - get a new lover since it is obvious that he thinks he is more important than you are. Here you are working on ways to please him and yet: he can't bring himself to work on ways to please you? As anyone who has worked anywhere odoriferous can tell you, you very soon get used to smells.

[sweetcheeks2006]

He does not think he is more important than me.... He goes out of his way to make me happy...

[Hurricane88]

It took me a while the first time I gave oral to my girlfriend cos of this exact thing .. in the end I just went for it and its nowhere near as bad as I was imagining, I actually love going down on her now.

Tbh, he just needs to ignore it and go for it, he should learn that its not as bad as it seems .. or if not, like unkown said .. try bringing things like fruit or other foods .. a favourite of me and my girlfriends is melted chocolate.

[Old Kid]

At the risk of being obvious, what about your pubic hair. For some reason hair seams to retain odors more than skin does. Just smell the hair of someone who smokes or has been in a smoky bar. My ex was quite hairy & it took some scrubing to get rid of the odor after her period. It will also retain the odor of urine from peeing. I'd usually wash it for her if I knew we were going to have sex. Some scented soap or shampoo adds a nice touch. Moot point if you're shaven I suppose. A little spritz of your perfume can't hurt either just don't put it directly on the vagina cause it has alcohol & will burn plus it tastes bad. I usually do the same to myself so it smells nice down there for her too. Regaurdless of what EEK says, not too many men are gonna want to go down on someone who smells like a day old carp. Not saying you do dear

[Sirene]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

If after all of the showering etc - and he still complains - get a new lover since it is obvious that he thinks he is more important than you are. Here you are working on ways to please him and yet: he can't bring himself to work on ways to please you? As anyone who has worked anywhere odoriferous can tell you, you very soon get used to smells.

Are you for real? Jesus christ. You are insane.

[little_me]

i dont bame any man for not gon down on a gal if she smells really bad, if for some reason ma gf smells bad i dont go down, although wen she smells good i absolutely love go down.

EEK if ur man smelled bad down there would u honestly say ud give him oral alot?

[sportdork6]

Personally I love the smell, its natural and quite an ahrodisiac for me. I honestly can't get enough and it really turns me on. My girlfriend is concerned I may not like it, because of things like this, I'm sure alot of it is socialization that it may not be good, but really, in my opinion, vagina smells different then her body, but definately in a good way. Its like a naturally attractive odor and I like it, of course I believe its different to everyone, I feel that if its a problem that you may really need to change him, since you can't change it more than just keeping it clean.

[sweetcheeks2006]

i have been clean-shaven the last 2 or 3 times he had the opportunity.. i think we just need to get more creative.... i figured next time i could set up a wash cloth and some sweet-smelling soap and incorporate that into the foreplay..