Omg!! I Need Help Fast

[JustHavingFun]

My bf told me yesterday he wanted me to go 4-wheeling with me today…

He hadn’t called all day so I finally said **** it and called him…

I asked him what he was doing and he said 4-wheeling then said look I’ll call you back later

What the ****

He’s been doing this a lot lately and it really hurts…

I cancel all my plans for him and he goes and does this ****
Is he cheating?
Is he tired of me?
Are we seeing too much of each other?

PLEASE SOMEONE HELP I’M ALL OUT OF TEARS

[EvilEvilKitten]

Just - drop him. He's playing you for all he is worth and you are permitting him to do it. No need to explain - just no longer answer his calls, no emails, no texting - nothing. If you see him in public - don't see him - cut him dead. It is like he never existed at all ever!

You need to cultivate more friends anyway.
Do not worry, plenty of men out there!

[toyfairy]

I agree...

not to mention that once this behavior starts it never will turn back to what it may have been in the past. Something is going on here...Drop him and find someone that wants to actually be with you and will treat you better.

Good luck.

[Newtolove]

what is 4 wheeling ? something like go carting ?
it does sound like he is not giving you much consideration anyway talk to him and yea maybe it is time to move on

[Old Kid]

Originally Posted by Newtolove

what is 4 wheeling ? something like go carting ?
it does sound like he is not giving you much consideration anyway talk to him and yea maybe it is time to move on

Off road activity. Either with a 4 wheel drive Quad type machine or could be a Jeep, Truck or SUV

[Newtolove]

and he prefers that to being with his girl or taking her along ? scrap him....

[Old Kid]

Originally Posted by Newtolove

and he prefers that to being with his girl or taking her along ? scrap him....

Well I don't see anything wrong with haveing activities separately but he shouldn't have invited her to go along and then blow her off. Some of the stuff us guys like to do can be pretty boring to the women just as I wouldn't care to go to a baby shower with my GF. But he invited her, she wanted to go and then he went by himself (maybe?) Very rude and inconsiderate to say the least.

[Newtolove]

Originally Posted by Old Kid

Well I don't see anything wrong with haveing activities separately but he shouldn't have invited her to go along and then blow her off. Some of the stuff us guys like to do can be pretty boring to the women just as I wouldn't care to go to a baby shower with my GF. But he invited her, she wanted to go and then he went by himself (maybe?) Very rude and inconsiderate to say the least.

yea thats what I meant I mean first invite then vanish ? I'd keep my gf fully informed of what I was doing and ask to come along at every opportunity

[girl12]

He is being an *******. I know it is hard to let him go, but since you said he has been doing this a lot, all he is really doing is using you. This is WAY too common. As much as it hurts, you deserve better, and there are guys that can treat you better. Let him know that by kicking him to the curb.

[NizeGie]

Personally, if I were you, I'd just feel kinda happy about not having to go 4-wheeling.

Maybe that's just me.