She says she finds it hard showing emotions unless i do???

[snowman]

Hi was wondering if any1 could share some views and shed some light as to what would be best thing to do here...



situation is i m going out with this girl its been like 4 months so well over that 'like each other stage' and we dont get to see each other that much at mo but like talk to each other literally every night without fail for hours. The thing is now it seems as though she cant or rather wont do things like show her emotions to me unless i do and she s said this!! i ve always been use to girls showing alot of forthright emotion in the past as this is usually the case.

i was wondering firstly if someone could give a reason as to why she is being like this as she s made it clear she has plenty of emotion she wants to tell me but cant unless i do sort of like 'get the ball rolling'. I was thinking could this maybe be her way of saying she wants to tell me she loves me but is waiting on me to tell her??

Also what would be good way to get her to initiate showing this emotion, obviously would be me just being forward and emotional but i really havent been use to being so emotional as a guy unless a girl just lets out her emotions to me!!

hope this makes sense and someone can share some insight!!

[EvilEvilKitten]

You posted this elsewhere and my answer hasn't changed. Quit hiding and fishing for answers!

[demonbuttercup]

I wouldn' go as far to assume she wants to hear "I love you".

Maybe, she had a bad relationship/break up previously so now she is vulnerable.
Maybe, she just wants to be sure you are really into her and the relationship before she decides to "open up" in the event she might get hurt.

[snowman]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

You posted this elsewhere and my answer hasn't changed. Quit hiding and fishing for answers!

alright calm down, its just i thought it didnt really belong in the other section thats all!!

[snowman]

Originally Posted by demonbuttercup

I wouldn' go as far to assume she wants to hear "I love you".

Maybe, she had a bad relationship/break up previously so now she is vulnerable.
Maybe, she just wants to be sure you are really into her and the relationship before she decides to "open up" in the event she might get hurt.

ok

yes she has been hurt in the past and definately think it still affects her. is the best way to simply tell her how i feel as a means of assuring her that i dont intend on hurting her whilst she is in this vulberable state??

thanks