I think this girl likes me but Im not sure

[Grishrak]

Ok on New Year's Day this year I was at a small party, and a girl lead me into a back bed room. I thought it was a girl that my friend knows her older sister. But we had sex together and I think she had an organism. I read the main site's info on it and a lot of the signs she had while we were having sex. Her pelvis muscles got tight, she had short and shallow breathing, and she got real wet. And during sex she was kissing me on the lips, neck (and bitting my neck), and licking my earlobes and she was smiling to me after.

But after sex and both of us got dressed and she started making out with me and we went and rejoined the party but later she lead me back to the same bed room and asked if I would lay in bed with her. She wrapped my arm around her and I rested it on her shoulder, she laid her head on my chest directly over my heart, and she was holding my hand and we both went to sleep. My friend went back there and told me he was ready to leave (it was about 7 something in the morning).

He got her number from her sister and I called her 2 weeks later and the next day she called me and wants to see me this weekend. Since then shes been calling me a lot. I don't know if we'll have sex again this weekend or not, but the way she talks about it, it sounds like we will. I don't really know if she wants to be friends with benefits or something more.

Ive only had sex a few times and no girl has reacted the way she is. So now Im confused and worried that maybe this time it won't be as good to her, but I want it too so Ive been looking over the pleasing girls on main site. Anyone know if she just wants to be friends with benefits or more then just friends?

[dancingdoc2]

> Anyone know if she just wants to be friends with benefits or more then just friends?

As good as some of us are at using our gut feelings and intuition, no one here is a mind reader. Only she knows the answer. Communication is the key to having a great relationship and this extends into the romantic and sexual aspects as well. Ya better start talking to her--and listening, also.

[CuriousMe]

i think she might want to be more than friends, but u still have to follow dancingdoc's opinion, communication is wonderful

[EvilEvilKitten]

It sounds to me like she finds you quite attractive and she's willing so don't mess it up by rushing it - thinking its a relationship. Talk to her but don't go spilling your guts out. It is far too soon for that. Relax. Calm down. See where this leads.

[Newtolove]

well sex with a stranger is quite a fast begining I suggest if you do go out you just ask her what she wants I mean she started it all off. do you know her at all ?

[Grishrak]

Originally Posted by Newtolove

well sex with a stranger is quite a fast begining I suggest if you do go out you just ask her what she wants I mean she started it all off. do you know her at all ?

No I didn't know her before that night at all, I seen her a few times giving me a look (in a good way) but I didn't think it would lead to sex.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Remember my telling you guys that if she wants you, she will let you know? Well, fella, she let you know! Now it is time to calm down and start building.

[NizeGie]

I also think she likes you, but I also am not sure. Of course, it's possible that she's just trying to lure you into a vulnerable position so she can kill you with an ice pick. Though that doesn't seem extremely likely.

What you described (in general, if not the specific details) happens thousands of times every day ... and probably the most on New Year's Eve.

[Newtolove]

well mate just talk to her when you meet next I mean she pretty much made plain she has interest in you now you best find out what type of interest it is

[sera300]

Grishrak--have you gotten the answer yet? This happened 20 days ago...what's happening now???