I couldn't feel a thing

[lookingforreassurance]

Me and my boyfriend just had sex for the first time. We have been together for a couple of months now......that means a couple of months of foreplay. Anyway, we were in the act and I couldn't feel a thing! Granted, I was extremely aroused and so wet that it was dripping. Could that be a contributing factor? When I felt him with my hands, he didn't seem small; and with every other sexual partner I've had, sex has always hurt. He seemed to enjoy himself, but if I couldn't feel him, is it possible that he felt me? We went for a second round, in a different position, and I felt him just fine. I'm concerned that he couldn't feel me in the beginning and it's freaking me out. Can I hear anyone's opinions?

[ua322]

Originally Posted by lookingforreassurance

....We went for a second round, in a different position, and I felt him just fine....

Based upon the statement above, it sounds like "problem solved".

Next...

[dancingdoc2]

I agree, although your description is a bit vague.

The vaginal vault has few nerves with which to feel much more than what many women say they enjoy and that is a sense of "fullness". All of the sensitive nerve endings associated with the vagina are located around the outside of the entrance and just inside. If you want to feel something then this is where his or your efforts should be placed.

I can guarantee that whatever he touches with his penis he feels; although, having said that, there is a caveat and that is that when you are very aroused the circumference of the vagina expands in size and when inside you the walls of the vagina may not touch his penis all over.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Have him caress your G-Spot with the head of his penis - THAT you WILL feel!

[sera300]

I have found that being too wet does not allow for the full range of sensations especially if he, a some men do, push downward with their penis...meaning they push more towards the rectal wall. Try to get him to keep it on the upside, the wall nearest you abdomen...the best sensations are there.

[sera300]

Just a FYI--I have found a way which helps me decrease the level of wetness prior to sex yet maintain a high level of arousal...take a hot bath and soak out for a while before any sex...works for me.

[oleander86]

I agree with all that's been said above - sometimes if you're really, really aroused, the sex loses some sensation just because of the expanding of your vagina or the over-lubication. I've never had to use lubrication a day in my life, and I know exactly what you're talking about.

But seeing as you went again and felt it fine, I wouldn't think that anything's broken there.

[Westles]

I must admit when my girl starts to dry up it feels tons nicer