Need advice...Is he just playing with me?

[BranBranDan]

Ok of course we work together and have worked together for the past 9 months. He has flirted with me since day one. But I have also known that his first wife cheated on him. So I felt since he was hurt by her...He would not do anything to hurt the current wife. So this is why I feel he is just playing with me.
I truely have a crush on him.....he makes me feel like a little high school girl when he is around. He tells me how pretty I am and how nice I smell. I catch him (he doesnt try to hide it) looking at my chest. I'll tell him to look at my face when he talks to me and he just smiles. I know he tells me everything I wish my husband would tell me and I think that is why I love being around him so much. We have talked on the phone for hours at a time, He makes commits in public that I am his girlfriend, But we have never ever touched.

I could go on and on but I guess my question is....is he just playing me or could something really come out of this? I have never cheated on my husband but really think I could with this guy.

[sera300]

You both are married, think about it; what are you doing hanging around this guy??? Are you looking for an affair b/c you are heading in that direction. It's not "play" this is serious and you know it. I think you have to ask yourself why are you allowing yourself to get involved, understand the consequences.

[Demonic-Booze]

ya seriously, marriage isnt something to be taken lightly. u made a commitment to another person and if u dont want to deal with that responsibility then maybe u shouldnt have said yes.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Let this go! This is bad news - seriously bad news! And if this is a boss, then it is even worse! He sounds more like a sexual harasser than a married man.

You need to sit down and think, without pretense, why are you doing this? What do you hope to gain from this? Why are you not talking about your needs with your husband? Once you cross the line, there is no going back - ever.

After introspection. You need to discuss this with your husband. Because he has his rights too. Do not show your husband disrespect by going behind his back. Think how you would feel if your husband went behind your back!