too fast

[unknown11]

me(non virgin, 15 years old) and a girl(virgin before me, 16 years old) have had sex on new years. i was wanting peoples opinion on if it was to soon or not.

and no we were not drunk

[dancingdoc2]

The short answer is "yes".

The long answer is more complex.
* Did both of you use protection?
* Did only one of you? You? Her?
* Did you not use any protection?
* Did you do this just to get your rocks off and to satisfy an "itch" in the loins or was there a more profound reason?

> and a girl

* Just some girl, not a girlfriend with whom you are emotionally attached?

It is a cruel twist of fate that Mother Nature matures our body before our mind. So, hormones often drive us to have sex while the mind is not yet mature enough to grasp and appreciate the immensity of the act or to see the consequenses of our actions.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Fine - so why are you asking us?

[scottyv#47]

no that seems fine to me. if your both comfortable with it then go for it. enjoy it all i say

[dancingdoc2]

Scotty, at 16, your reply is typically why I answered the way I did, above.

[NizeGie]

Originally Posted by unknown11

me(non virgin, 15 years old) and a girl(virgin before me, 16 years old) have had sex on new years. i was wanting peoples opinion on if it was to soon or not.

That depends: was it before midnight?

and no we were not drunk

The real question is, looking back, do you think you should have been?

[unknown11]

okay answer to docs questions

yes protection was used
no it was not to satify an itch

and we knew each other for 3 days but were not dating

also she was the one who thought to do it first

[EvilEvilKitten]

Okay - so where's the problem?? You both, I hope, had fun! Congrats!!