i need some advice...this is a long story

[pcenlve]

okay so i have been well i dont kno wwhat to call it...see i was dating this guy and he was treating me like crap and everyone saw it but me and we started hanging out with his friends alot then one night i guess one of his friends said that he is uncomfortable around me because he likes me then my my boyfriend totally blew up at me and starting yelling at me but i had know idea why...so he stromed out of the hoouse then his friend told me what he had told him, then my boyfirned came back and apologized and got all teary eyed and i felt bad so i took him back under the condition he would treat me better. the next night we went back to his friends house and we were cleaning the carpet with shaving cream (dont ask) then his friend (not the one who liked me another one) srayed me with shaving cream so we got in a shaving cream fight and my boyfriend was playng with us and it was all good then i went to the bathroom to get cleaned up and my boyfriend said i am going to my house to watch a movie bye (he lived across the street) and left all mean and stuff then i was like well **** him then and i was making his friend and the one who liked me pb&j's and he called and the one who like me answered the phone and said that i couldnt come to the phone my hands werre a little sticky just joking of coursethen he houng up but later that night i called him and told him it wasnt working out and his friends said that we all could be friend but he went all crazy and called the cops on them bc the were in a house that they technically werent supposed to be in because i started to see the one who liked me but anyway now i am still hooking up with him but it seems like all we do is have sex or lay aorund in the hotel room (he lives there now) and i am just wondering how can i see if he wants a relationship with me or not......please help!

[dancingdoc2]

Find new friends.
Learn to be more perceptive both with your intuititon and of how you want to be treated. This sounds like you are needy and not very strong.

Perhaps you shouldn't date until you learn more about you and what you want and how you can settle for nothing less. In the meantie find new friends.

[cyclefreak]

Whew. That's one long sentence. Please use some punctuation!

Hmm, it sounds like your boyfriend may have some problems with anger management. It might be best to move on and fine someone else.

[cyclefreak]

Er, I meant find someone else, not fine.